To be honest, I've developed some habits like working out or meditation in these two years.But recently a new habit formed is cooking by myself. Actually when I was very young. I didn't like cooking at all. Not only because I think it's a kinda waste of time but also against the difinition of women in the kitchen.
However, when I got older. I found that the takeout food is very unhealthy and will make my skin bad and make me fat. Also in the Market, many restaurants use pre-made food for customers. You know Yuzhicai in Chinese. So for the above reasons.I take this new habit and really enjoy it. I think cooking is also a sort of creating things. When you focus yourself on it. You feel a state of flow. And cooking makes me feel I'm living now not just survive as a cattle or horse.
Unlike the parents we borned to have, friends are who we choose to have. First of all, I really appreciate the friendship in my life. When I was very young, I think my best friend will accompany with me forever.Just like the abbreviation "BFF" Best Friend forever. However, things had changed since last year. My best friend coraline.We've know each other for thirteen years. She quitted her job and went abroad to learn MTI in England.And I know her plan is to stay abroad and won't come back home.
Before her leave.We almost chatted on the phone every day. We share everything with each other.But now, bacause of the distance and different circles we have now. We haven't chatted for a really long time. I just feel like a very important person disappear in my life.
Somebody has told me a metaphor. You are the driver on your life bus. These friends are just the passengers on the bus. Sometimes they get on the bus. Sometimes they get off the bus. They just accompany with your for a moment.Just make sure you enjoy the time when they on the bus and enjoy the jonery as a driver.