How should we love in life?
The Author: Shirley Yu
Date: 9-5-2025
What is love?
Is there love in the human world?
Why?
Why are you loved?
Do you love others?
What does it mean to be awake? When you are in dire straits, at rock bottom, in despair, and penniless, who can you turn to for help?
Who can save you?
Why should anyone save you?
You have to be rejected by countless people, to be in despair, at your wit's end, mentally broken, on the verge of death, before you finally realize how difficult life is.
Who can you blame? Your parents? Your friends for being disloyal? Are they all cold-blooded, heartless, and indifferent?
When you are in pain and helpless, perhaps your parents will scold you, despise you, and accuse you of incompetence and failure to meet their expectations. And what about others? Don't pin your life and hopes on others; that is sheer folly. Empathy is key. If we can empathize with others, we can understand that they, like us, are human beings whose lives are not without challenges. As individuals, we all grow through our own experiences, encounters, pain, and tribulations. No Pain, No Gain. Pain is the very moment of enlightenment and self-awakening.
In this world, only we can save ourselves.
Don't complain; save yourself, redeem yourself, grow, and become stronger. Respect Heaven and love others!
Say to yourself: Hi, dear, love yourself forever. Never, ever, give up on yourself, cherish your life every day, and keep studying, working and enjoying every moment.