Question One:
In the days after the cheese was lost, the dwarfs went to Station C every day, dreaming that the cheese was still there.But Station C was always empty, and they suffered from the loss of cheese, frustration, depression, hunger, and the resulting anger. Hem and Haw kept analyzing who had taken the cheese, waiting for it to appear.The two dwarfs had grown weak from hunger and anxiety.The long time of depression and countless inner struggles made Haw extremely painful. He wanted to start again and look for new expectations for countless times, but he put them down again and again for fear of failure.
After many struggles, Hem refused to accept the change because he was afraid things would get worse. However，Haw finally faced up to his failure.Once things change, they will never be the same again.As the life changes and the days move on, we should change with them, rather than stay where we are.He did his best to use his imagination and painted a picture of himself that he trusted, in which he was looking for and tasting new cheese.
He discovers that change leads to a better life and adapts accordingly.Haw decided to leave the old cheese and find a new one, but Hem didn't want to change anything and stayed at Station C.
Question Two:
Hem denies and resists change out of fear of change.When he thinks he has the whole world, he is immersed in it and cannot extricate himself. When he loses what he has, he complains about the whole world hysterically. He does not look for problems from himself, or even delude himself and fantasizes that what he has lost will come back one day.
When Haw sees that change will make things better, he can adjust himself to change in time. He has lived in his own bewilderment, he has been at a loss what to do when disaster strikes.But when all else fails, he sees the situation clearly and chooses to change at the last moment.
In our daily life, most of us are like Haw. But when our traditional way of life or traditional thinking is impacted and our situation has changed, can we calmly change with the change of situation? Maybe some people resist change, but ultimately, it's because we're afraid of change. "What would you do if you weren't afraid?" Of course, sometimes this modest fear is a good thing, and when we worry that our inaction will make our situation worse, fear can prompt us to take immediate action to help us avoid real danger. But if this fear is so constraining that it prevents us from making the necessary changes, then it is a huge obstacleto our progress.
The reason we have this irrational fear is because of our beliefs and the way we think. When we think that change will make us lose everything in the present moment, we resist change and refuse to understand it. But when we feel the joy of change and think it will help us win the future, will help us open up a challenging and fun tomorrow, we will no longer fear, no longer hesitate. We will welcome change, lit up in a new direction of unlimited power and passion. When our ideas change, so do our actions, and both individuals and ideas move in a new direction.
