十三
打卡，《一辈子的活法》
每个时代都有每个时代的特点，1949-1957年之间，王蒙的生活小资惬意，充满着美好与幸福，也许因为年少，17-19的年龄一切都是美好的，男女之间的情窦初开也是那么的美好，充满快乐，一个人的成长终究是外界塑造的为主，自我进步为辅！
肖欣
打卡《别对我撒谎》这本书正是这样的一部作品。故事展现了一幅小镇画卷，从三个分支（苔丝、瑞秋、塞利西亚）看似各自独立的生活中，铺陈两条时间线，创造人物之间的交集和对彼此命运的影响。许许多多看似有关又无关的小事，树立了形形色色的人物形象。作者并没有极大渲染“命运”的存在，却在勾画“性格”特点的同时，将偶然都变成了必然，然后在最后尾声阶段把视角突然抬高，居高临下地用寥寥几笔给予读者更大的叹息——从未有人知道真相，造化弄人，最终也只有接受，并找到自我疏导的路。
瓶覗
打卡 《这个世界，没那么简单》12%
维度不仅从空间上考虑 还能从思维上考虑 当今社会处理事物考虑高维度已是社会发展大趋势
例如5W1H指who when what where why how六个维度
一件事的解决可以优先考虑不同维度 有些问题的维度非常复杂
不能简单一刀切 但也有些问题涉及的维度想对单一
反而适合一刀切 通常要治理涉及全社会的基础性问题
可以从简单维度入手 一刀切下去 干脆利落。
1维度有优先顺序
要从最有效的维度入手
2当优先维度完全失效时
应由次重要维度取代成为优先维度
3优先维度难以独自完成任务时
就需要引入更多的维度、更多的力量-这是普遍法则 也是个人和社会向前发展的必然要求
绫波尼
打卡，《西方哲学史》
笛卡尔是个有趣的人，天赋异禀且勤于思考。我思故我在，就是他对于庄周梦蝶的解释，尽管他最后又回到了上帝的范畴，但是他的质疑精神却为后面的人提供了方案。我们的感官到底是不是真实的？黑客帝国，楚门的世界，盗梦空间都是一种看法。（在此之前，我一直以为笛卡尔是个数学家……）
奥兹
打卡 【I suck at girls】 书摘 But we’re complex animals, and we’re constantly changing. Things I
thought ten years ago seem like absolute bullshit now. So there’s no scientific formula to predict
how things are going to work out with a marriage, because a marriage in year
one is completely different from the same marriage ten years later. So when
you’re dealing with something incredibly unpredictable, like human beings,
numbers and formulas don’t mean shit. The best you can do is take all the
information you have and, scientifically speaking, do what?”
“So I’ll tell
you what I did right before I asked your mother to marry me: I took a day and I
sat and I thought about all the things I had learned about myself, and about
women, up to that point in my life. Just sat and thought. I may have smoked
marijuana as well. Anyway, at the end of the day, I took stock of everything
I’d gone through in my head, and I asked myself if I still wanted to propose to
your mother. And I did. So that’s what I humbly suggest you do,
Nicole’s rejection didn’t sting quite as
much as I expected, and the only reason I could figure was because for the
first time that night, I had done exactly what I wanted to do.
A rite of passage I’d expected to mean so
much had left me feeling no different at all. I had no idea when I would feel
like a man, or what it would take. All I could safely say was that I was a boy
who had had sex, and was really, really good at washing dishes, and that would
have to be enough for now.
But I have never seen a human being drive
himself more batshit than you when it’s time to make a decision. Every time you
order lunch it’s like you’re presiding over the fucking Cuban missile crisis.”
Someday you’re gonna go stupid for a woman.
And when you do, do me this one favor: don’t get all caught up in the bullshit
that’s going on in your head. If it’s right, then you put on your fuckin’ big-boy
pants and you go for it.”
“But when you
go into an experiment and you’re abso-fucking-lutely sure you’re going to be
right, the experiment inevitably goes to shit, because you’re not prepared for
anything unexpected. Then, when something fucked-up does happen—and it will—you
either don’t see it, or you just pretend like it never happened because you
refuse to believe you could have fucked up. And you know what that does?” he
asked. “Ruins your experiment?”“Bingo. So the only way to run an experiment
successfully is to start by accepting the fact that your experiment might
fail.”
“Well, you
don’t need to get sed and go to Europe to do that. You’re over six feet tall
and your mom says you’re funny. I’d say run with those two things and see where
it gets you.”
