#[日剧]# 宠物情人(1月15）

日剧偏向自然清新的风格。无论画面，人物。忍不住看到凌晨两点多。女主角岩谷澄丽是一位30岁的白领。高学历，高学问，情商却不成正比。前两集我并不太能够接受女主角把人当做pet来养，总感觉脚踏两只船。有些事或人潜意识感觉那就是对的，时间和直觉便会告诉我们一切。男主角志尊淳演技是比较出彩的，真实的内心像他澄澈的眼睛。温暖又具有磁性，尤其面带梨涡嘴角上扬，彻底心动了。男主跳芭蕾也是让我心跳加速(≧∇≦)ﾉ泪奔的一点图截屏。

女主感觉到自己快要死掉的时候想到的是一直陪在自己身边的人

真实的与你相处才会真实的了解你。因为有你在，我变得有力量。女主的独立很酷，值得我学习。曾看到这么句话，{交往}这件事，不只是为了休息日能在一起去哪里玩，那只是附带的东西罢了。{互相支撑着对方的生活}才是交往的本质。比起再一起的时候，倒不如说不能在一起的时候，两人互相成为对方的力量。这才是最重要的一点。它是让人在工作很辛苦的时候，只要想起对方的脸，就能再努力一把的力量。有的人是不需要见面的，活在记忆里怀念便好。

不知为何，想起来三毛的如果有来生。我想，我的人生里没有如果，我的人生里没有来生。

Living Life Over

如果有来生

作者：三毛

If I had my life to live over...

如果有来生，

I would have talked less and listened more.

我会少说，多听

I would have invited friends over to dinner

我会请朋友来家吃饭， 

even if the carpet was strained and the sofa faded.

即便地毯脏了，沙发褪色了。

I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.

我会抽时间听祖父絮叨他的青年时代

I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.

我不会因为刚刚把头发梳理定型而要求在夏天关上车窗。

I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose

我会点燃那支雕成玫瑰状的蜡烛，

before it melted in storage.

而不让它在尘封中熔化。

I would have sat on the lawn with my children

　我会与孩子们坐在草地上，

and not worried about grass stains.

不去担心草地上的污渍。

I would have cried and laughed less while watching television –

and more while watching life.

我会把泪水和笑声更多地留给观察人生，

而不是观看电视。

I would have gone to bed when I was sick

　如果生病了，我会卧床休息，

instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding patter

if I were not there for the day.

而不是自认没有我，地球就不转了。

I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, would not show soil or was guaranteed to last a life time.

我不会买那些仅仅是实用，或者不显脏，或者保证能用一生的东西。

There would have been more "I love yous"... more "I'm sorrys"...

我会更多地说“我爱你”……“对不起”……

but mostly, given another shots at life,

然而，最重要的是，如果有来生，

I would seize every minute...

　我会抓住每一秒……

look at it and really see it...live it...

看人生，读人生……体验人生……

and never give it back.

再也不放手

因为你很美好，一想到你我就想给你最好的。小时候向往过结婚的样子。也许长大了吧，也许我还未遇到你。愿自己能够成为像岩谷那样强大又温柔的人。