Every man is seeking self-satisfation. They want be be assured they are "good enough".

Every man is to shrink away from pains by naeture.

Every man is choosing their destination of life journey.

Every man cares interpersonal relationship.

My motto is "Walk upward and listen to your heart." These are what my heart tells me. If you're not movtivated to seek achivement , you are definitely struggling for avoiding pains.  Whenver the option is available, select the former.

Looking back on my life, it 's surprising that I live 32 years of avoiding. When I leave home for college, I love places far away but I decided to stay in a familiar city. The same thing happens when I graduated and tried to settle down.  I married my husband out of fear for future. He seems extravent, mature, practical, ideally making up for me. I'm not good enough to deal with others. Is that so? No, surely.  All of these are not solid enough for a mature marriage.

Indeed, there are setbacks, depression. But that's how it works. The thing is what makes your life worthwhile? Life is irresplaceable. You are the only one knowing it.

 It's a journey full of pits.

First, hard it is to figure out a specific life aim at an early age.

Moreover, life aim is changeable.

Last but not least, even though  you are lucky enough to find true passion,  no promise of realizing it is provided.

Aside from this, you may muddle along every day, not clear what the next is. You will flinch at unseen future. You migh be superficial. You could also conceited. That's where wonder of life lays. You trek, fall down, and resume the journey. Then gradually, you meet the most beautiful scenery.