Never really liked ‘absolutes’ or ‘extremes’ , simply because they were believed to be unhealthy. However, even the most unsure person in this world, tend to believe they are unique somehow, and their experiences at certain point in certain area have got to be unique as well. No one is. Nothing is.
In my late twenties, I once thought I was at my peak in my life. Nothing seemed to confuse me. I had it all figured out. How come, less than a decade later, I was right where I was, in that crossroad of life where nothing is certain, and all of sudden, I’ve got so much left to think about, so little in life with answers to?
The cliche is right. There are definitely only two kind of things in this world: your business and none of your business. People always tend to be disappointed, misunderstood, hurt or discouraged simply because they put too many thoughts into ‘none of your business’, and hence expectations emerge where they shouldn’t have been.
You are the only problem and solution in your world. Fix yourself and you fix them all.