我们小时候都有自己的梦想，你梦想成为一名科学家，他梦想成为一名宇航员，她梦想成为超级明星。可是当我们长大了，又有多少人实现了当初的梦想呢。梦想与现实之间，距离太遥远了。我们渐渐的会发现，大部分人沦为了普通人，而很多人也渐渐活成了那个自己曾经讨厌的样子。
20岁的时候，我追求自由，追求诗和远方，我觉得我一定是一个不平凡的人。
24岁的时候，我意气风发，决心在事业上好好闯荡，打出一片天下。
27岁的时候，看着别人结婚生子，我并不羡慕，觉得自己依然有可能获得成功。可是成功是什么，我依然没有想清楚。
30岁的时候，看着身边的朋友有的开了公司成为老板，有的成为公司高管，有的儿女双全，家庭幸福。可我依然独自一人，事业也根本没有起色。于是，中年焦虑如期而至。
于是，我开始思考，为什么要跟别人比较，做好自己，获得开心不就好了吗？
开始接受平凡，就是你真正走向成熟的时候。高晓松也说：老婆孩子一起就是平凡的幸福，不是非得流浪、去远方。
原来，大部分的人都过着相似的人生，上学工作结婚育娃，然后在柴米油盐中老去。
接纳平凡，把日子活得热气腾腾，这才是真正的生活。
希望你未来的日子，在平凡中也充满了诗书之气，而不是被柴米油盐折磨的一地鸡毛。
We all had our own dreams when we were young. You dream of becoming a scientist, he dreams of becoming an astronaut, she dreams of becoming a superstar. But when we grow up, how many people realize the original dream? The distance between dream and reality is too far. We will gradually find that most people have become ordinary people, and many people have gradually become the ones they used to hate.
When I was 20 years old, I pursued freedom, poetry and distant place. I felt that I must be an extraordinary person.
When I was 24 years old, I was passionate about life and determined to succeed in my career.
When I was 27 years old, I didn't envy watching other people get married and have children. I thought I could succeed at last. But I still don't know what success is.
When I was 30 years old, I compared with my friends around me. Some of them started a company and became the boss, some of them became senior executives, some of them had both children and a happy family. But I was still alone, and my career didn't improve at all. As a result, middle-aged anxiety arrived as scheduled.
So, I began to think, why do you want to compare with others? Isn't it good to be yourself？
Start to accept the ordinary, is when you really mature. Gao Xiaosong also said: Together with our family is ordinary happiness, not have to look for distant place.
It turns out that most people live a similar life, go to school and work, get married and raise children, and then grow old in daily necessities.
Accept the ordinary, live a positive life, this is the real life.
I hope that in the future, you will be full of poetry in the ordinary, instead of being tortured by daily necessities.
