Overview
We can only try to hold fast to the age-old values of honesty, decency and concern for others
1. 关爱他人健康
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看到别人气色不好,怎么说?怎么了?有什么不舒服吗?
What's the matter, Steven?
Do you feel all right? You don't look so good.
Are you OK? You look pale.
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感到很累
I don't feel well. I'm tired
I don't feel quite right. I need some rest.
I am exhausted.
I am worn out
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感到反胃,想要吐
I feel sick to my stomach.
I feel nauseous.
I feel like throwing up.
I think I'm going to vomit.
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感到头痛
I have a headache.
My head is killing me.
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我能为你做点什么
Can I get you a glass of water
Would you like to lie down?
Should I call a doctor?
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你感觉好点了吗?
Are you feeling better now?
Did you take any medication?
Have you seen a doctor?
2. 关怀他人情绪
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交流式
Tell me how you're feeling, maybe I can help you.
Do you just need to vent? I'm all ears.
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安慰式
- Don't worry, everything is going to be ok.
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注意力转移
- Would you like to hear some gossip?
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给予实际关怀
Can I make you a cup of tea?
I'm bringing dinner Thursday. Do you want lasagna or chicken?
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直接表达关心,让他知道他不是一个人在战斗
- I care about you, you are not alone.
3. 不要说得话
There's always someone worse off than you are.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself.
No one said that life was fair.
It's your own fault.