Habit1: Be proactive

We are responsible for our own lives.

Their (此处指highly proactive people) behavior is a product of their own conscious choice, based on values, rather than a product of their conditions, based on feeling.

看到文中提到了具备这一习惯/能力的人不会被环境和感受所影响，又让我想起一老师和我提到过的“强者改变环境，而弱者则被环境改变。”，还是有点沮丧，让我觉得自己有些决定和行为是不是就是反面教材，没有“物尽其用”就有点“一意孤行”样。

自己的运作模式，这个盲区还有待去发现和修整。