他有亲密恐惧症，于是在关系要进入更深的亲密和稳定之前，他会突然的选择做一个隐士，以此来避开被拒绝感，以及羞愧感和内疚感……

但是为了满足他在情感上对女性的需求，以及为了他想要逃离的孤独感，他又要用一种游戏来拉住她。

……当她提出想要结束这种游戏的时候，他会用狠毒的语气指责她对自己完全没有“耐心”。

有些人，就是这样，像彗星，时而靠近，又在一段时间后，沿着轨道绕远了……又靠近，又绕远，反复又反复。

如果你能识别出有彗星模式的男人，那么你的选择可能更加明智，那样，你的生活可以更加顺流顺意……

通常这样的男人是在童年和少年的时候，没有被母亲很稳定的给足照顾和呵护，于是现在要和女人建立亲密，信任，承诺，是困难的，仅此。

一般女人，你疗愈不了他，如果你遇到了，那你现在得选择成长的路。[愉快]

《疗愈27岁》

原创：明莹

He has intimate phobia, so before to enter the deeper intimacy and stability, he will do a hermit suddenly choice, in order to avoid rejection and sense of shame and guilt.

But in order to meet him in the emotion to the needs of women, and he wanted to escape from loneliness, he but also with a game to pull her.

When she wanted to end the game, he will use a vicious tone of voice she has no "patience" on their own.

Some people is this like a comet, sometimes close, and after a period of time，Near the detour along the track, and detour, over and over again.

If you can identify a comet model of man, then your choice may be more sensible, so that your life can be more flow.

Often this man is in childhood and youth, the mother is not very stable Give enough care and care, so now to women and intimate, trust.

commitment is difficult only the general woman, you heal him, if you encounter, you now have to choose the way to grow.

Cecelia Ming