When I was bored, I read an article in Chinese about why I am single, and five reasons for being single in English. When I am sad, I also want to make a bubble, which proves that I am still a normal person and an excuse I don't want to say. Teachers in high schools all say they can go to college to talk about love, but I don't think it's necessary.
In the words of the woman writer who wrote Chinese, she was single not because she had experienced an unforgettable feeling, but because she met her aunt, a master's tutor who could be said to be changed by knowledge. For this reason, she does not want to waste her most precious years on an unreliable feeling. She does not want to have endless stalls in the future. She also does not want to be unable to put out or hide money when her parents need it. She does not want to bargain and choose a cheaper one when buying things in the future. So she is single by strength, she works hard, she wants to change the fate of her rural girls with knowledge, she wants to buy what she likes in the future, she wants to earn more money for her parents. My idea is to make peace with her. I want to be rich in the future. I don't want more but I want enough. It's enough for me to live, for my parents to spend, for my family to take out when they need money, instead of borrowing money everywhere. I don't want to let this happen again, after all, once is enough.
Inner inferiority, demanding high goals, addiction to games, half-hearted, irascible temper, lovelorn these reasons are childish and immature. As a normal person, you just need someone to accompany you when you want to talk, so that you don't feel lonely and make you laugh when you are sad. Maybe I'm used to facing loneliness. I don't remember how long I haven't really laughed at a girl.
It is an indisputable fact that poverty limits our imagination. Because I don't have money, I have to struggle for years or even decades. So I don't envy them, I don't blame my parents, I just hate their own efforts, will not understand their parents'hard work.
Of course, most importantly: we are young. so let's set the world on fire, we can burn brighter than the sun.
Love is the communication under the equal relationship, but there is no one who makes me want to spend my whole life guarding.