We meet different kinds of people in every period of our life.
Some will be friends, some will just be nodding acquaintances, others will be closed friends, and only a few or even more less will be true friends during our whole life. These acquaintances are not friends, and maybe we just say “hello” or talk something meaningless when we meet accidently. These friends, in somehow,will be our closed friends. But most of them will just be friends, we may know each other but we are not that closed. We will also meet some people who like us and know much about us, and that may become our closed friends. In our later life, those closed friends may be common friend, acquaintances or just passing travelers.
And if you are lucky enough, there will remain a few friends who will never give up you and become your life-lasting friends.
Obviously, we need friends in our life. We may just say “Hello” at the very beginning we meet, and say “ Good-bye” at the last we leave. But we still need this kind of greeting or just say it is a kind of social communication. We all are sisters and bothers in somehow, because we own a same mother who named earth. We could not live alone without other people.
You may say I am independent and I like being alone. But being independent and being alone not means being isolated forever. You cannot just get rid of humans and you can’t just leave the society and the earth. There are exceptions if you are not a human.(I am just kidding)
If you don’t believe, you just try to stay alone at some places where have no humans, I bet you could not tolerate it even for a month. After all, most of us could not be Robinson Crusoe.(鲁滨逊)
We have experienced lots of happiness and meet many difficulties in our life, so we need to share with others sometimes. You share your happiness and the happiness will increase, so there will be more people feel happy. You say your difficulties, and the difficulties will decrease, because others may help you find out where is the problem from, at least you will feel better and they will also learn from your experiences.
I am not saying that we should share all our feelings with others, I just say we need to communicate and ask for help sometimes.
We communicate, and there may be misunderstandings, arguments or even fighting. That is unavoidable for which we are different individuals and have different opinions.
We want communication, we want friends, but we also get hurt by these desires sometimes. Someone express something of which they think as right, but we just think it as wrong and consider that person as stupid. We hurt them because of our differences or ignorances. Someone share their unhappiness to us which we don’t like to listen to, so we just ignore them.They feel hurt.
All those people, who hurt us or tend to hurt us, are our friends.(at least we believe they are) We think them as an important person in our life, so we care them. And then they get the ability of hurting us.
There, I just want to say, if we are friends, please just be a little considerate. If you are fired, please don’t put your angry on your friends and just take it for granted. If someone share you something, please don’t just say “shut up” and be just ignored. If you do, you may hurt them and you may lose them.
If you say you just don’t care, you will be treated the way you did today in your future, no exceptions! At that time, you will know how hurtful that is and you will feel the real lonely.
