FEAR OR LOVE ~~THOUGHTS

This life is what you make it. No matter what, you're going to mess up sometimes; it's a universal truth. But the good part is you get to decide how you're going to mess it up.                              ——Marilyn Monroe

Last night, a friend of Mon's Reading Club called me why I didn't update the article on Jianshu.

After the wechat finishing,I was moved.To my sensation she noticed my trend and care about my article.

So I thanks a lot for her.I  have writed articles with the other number after I change my life attitude.

The morning of today I thought who am I and what my value is?What is my purpose here in life?What is my destiny when I am done here?

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As a man lives,so he dies.

I am not afraid dead,but I am afraid that I haven't done many things befor being died.I am afraid I live unhappy.

Life has hurt me a thoundsand times,but I still regard it as my first love.

Yes.I love my life.Although I was broken out of marry.I felt sad about it whole one year.Not but God will ever know what I suffered.But I have a boy that whom can enjoy our company.

Sometimes I think I was stupid in the past sad year.

I remember LaoTzu said,"If you are depressed,you are living in the past.If you are anxious,you are living in the future.If you are at peace,you are living in the present."

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That's ture,the past things and people are past,never can return.The future things and people is in the future,not happen right now.So the moment now is the most important.Why do I burden myself with the past?

I can read more books, draw a picture and so on.But today I am not myself.Because I fall in love and just read an speaking article about fear or love.

I think fear is in the brain,love is from the heart.

Now fear is going to be a player in my life, but I get to daside how much.

Maybe I imagin more about things.So I am worrying about the pathway to the future.

But all there will ever be is what's  happening here and the decisions we make in this moment,  which are based in either love or fear.

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The plants never think that they do not growth,and the flowers never think they are ugly.They are happen to nature.

So many of us choose our path out of fear disguised as practicality. What we really want seems impossibly out of reach and ridiculous to expect, so I never dare to ask him how am I to do?

Life doesn't happen to you. It happens for you.

As far as I can think,it is just about letting him know what I love and I think,while letting go of how it comes to pass.

Why not take a chance on faith?

Not hope, but faith.The faith is that I am rich,I am unique,and I am well worth to love.

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Actions speak louder than words.

I am sure to know that "If you didn't go what you've gone through,you wouldn't be who you are today."

Yes,I hope he can treat me as I treat him.So hope walks through the fire and faith leaps over it.

If I must walk the path of my life smoothly,there is only one choose,fear and love?

Choose love, and don't ever let fear turn me against my playful heart.

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