2021.5.6

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是时候给生命做个审计了

Sadhguru: People always kept account of money and things that they have. But very few people ket... kept accounts of how they are, are they progressing or regressing or what is happening. People have taken on this mode, if small things go wrong in their life, they’ll find one little person down there and say it's because of him. I am talking about the husband (Laughter). If big things go wrong, it's because of him, the big guy up there (Referring to creator). This guy (Referring to oneself), never in account. 

Sadhguru（萨古鲁）：人们总是对自己应有的财物记账。但很少有人记录自己的状态，自己是进步了、退步了，或是在发生什么。人们选择了这种模式，如果生命中的小事出了差错，他们会找下面的一个小人物，然后说都是因为他。我指的是丈夫。如果大事出了差错，那是因为他，上面的那个大人物（指造物主）。这个家伙（指自己），从来不负责。

The little people or big people… This one (Referring to oneself)…This one acts really big when he has to receive something, but when he has to give something, he really acts very small (Laughs).  People have taken on this mode. This is because there is no clear accounting process (Laughs) and no clear cut balance sheet, “This is where I stand in my life.”  If there was an accounting process…If you… Shall we make an audit?  

小人物或大人物……这个人......当要接受什么东西时，这个人会表现得非常高大；当要给出什么东西时，他却表现得很渺小。人们选择了这个模式，这是因为没有清晰的会计流程，没有清晰的资产负债表。“这是我在生命中所处的位置。” 如果有个会计流程的话，如果你......让我们来做个审计好吗？

Participants: Yes.

学员：好。

Sadhguru: Little bit of life audit. When you were five years of age, how joyful you were, today, how joyful you are, the balance sheet, is it profit or loss? Hmm?  That means it's loss (Few laugh). I was… I was speaking to a… a group of people at the Princeton University and I looked around, a whole lot of people sitting with long faces. Particularly in university, the faces are extra-long (Gestures) (Few laugh). Maybe (Laughs) it's the weight of knowledge, I don’t know. So I looked around – except for three-four faces, which were young faces, which were bright, all others (Gestures)…

Sadhguru（萨古鲁）：给生命稍微做个审计。当你五岁时，你有多快乐；今天，你有多快乐。资产负债表上是赚了还是亏了？嗯？那表示亏了。我有一次在普林斯顿大学给一群人讲话，环顾四周，我看到好多好多人都坐在那里拉长着脸。尤其在大学里，人们的脸都拉得格外长。也许是因为知识的重量，我不知道。我看了一圈，除了三、四张脸以外，那是年轻人的脸，是明亮的脸，其他所有人……

Then I asked them, “What’s happened to all these people over thirty years of age? Why are they carrying such long faces?” One lady stands up and says, “They are all married” (Laughter). This is happened only because there is no day-to-day accounting. Every day before you go to bed, if you had a balance sheet going, “Today, am I little better human being or am I little worse?” every day if you had accounts, once a year if there was a clear audit – external audit (Few laugh) – then very quickly you would have recovered. 

于是我问他们：“这些年过三十的人都怎么了？他们的脸为什么拉得这么长？” 一位女士站起来说：“他们都结婚了。”之所以会这样就是因为他们没有每天都给自己记账。每天睡觉前，如果你有个资产负债表做记录，“今天，我是变成了更好一点还是更差一点的人？” 如果你每天都这么记一下，每年做一次清楚的审计——外部审计，那么你很快就能恢复。

But after twenty-five years, one day you realize, you are deep in the red. Now very difficult to recover because it’s gone to another place, where to a point, where a whole lot of people have an argument that it is not practical to be joyful in the accounting job (Laughs). A whole lot of people are actually arguing that it's not practical to be joyful. You… You met lot of them? Yes or no? People are making a case, that it is not practical to be joyful.

但25年之后，突然有一天你意识到你已深陷赤字。那就很难恢复了，因为事情已经发展到了另一个地步。那时很多很多人会争辩说，做会计工作想要快乐是不切实际的。很多很多人实际上在争辩说，快乐是不切实际的。你们见过很多这样的人吗？是不是这样？人们都在证明，快乐是不切实际的。

Is it practical to be in various states of stress and distress and still function properly in the world? If one has to function in variety of atmospheres, in variety of situations, variety of challenges on day-to-day basis, one fundamental thing is, this (Referring to oneself) must be a peaceful and joyful being, isn't it? Otherwise, how is it practical that a person under great stress or distress can function effectively in any field or any area of life? 

身处各种压力和痛苦中，还要在世界上正常运转，这实际吗？如果一个人每天面对各种环境、各种情形、各种挑战，还要正常运转，一个基本前提就是，这个（自己）必须是平和喜悦的存在，不是吗？否则，一个处于巨大压力和痛苦之中的人要在生命中任何领域有效运转，这怎么可能切合实际呢？

【反思】

昨天中午去吃素食自助，没有像之前一次性吃很多，感觉要把本捞回来一样。而是，想吃多少就吃多少，只吃自己喜欢的，吃的舒服了即可。没必要非得全尝个遍，也没有必要把自己弄得撑到不行，多难受。舒服了喜欢了，就尽兴了。值得赞扬，吃的舒服比什么都强。

但是昨天吃完饭顺便和小伙伴逛街，并没有忍住买买买。因为在一家试了蛮久，还是个时髦的老奶奶，觉得不买对不起老奶奶，于是还是买了。那种内疚心理最终还是会让自己买单。但好像也不算是最喜欢吧。后来也是，完全可以不买那么多，但还是买了。卖完就后悔。觉得买贵了。卖家都在说自己在亏钱了，卖的太低了。而我们呢觉得也还行，是自己承受范围，但后来想想其实也有些不值那么多钱，但还是买了。因为觉得合适。才发现说，自己更多的考虑到的是合适，而不是最喜欢。于是可能总是买些还行，差不多，用朋友的话就是普通的衣服吧。也是自己的弊病。喜欢穿宽松的、舒服的衣服，而不是很显身材的衣服。希望后续的自己足够冷静，而不是因为很多的外界因素买买买吧。