Bought cookeries, but cooking last for about two weeks.
Bought books, but put it somewhere only read several pages.
Writing on platform, but after two weeks, you forgot about this thing.
Obviously, the thing you do is not very important you think, at least not urgent, it's normal, but you need something meaningful and necessary which can drive you forward.Even you are lazy or you want to delay something but you can not, because it will influence something, the results you can not bear,so you must do it, not be allowed to give up halfway. This is the key.
what can become your drive? You can reflect your life experience becasue somewhat they have already proved.
like the Job's saying, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition, maybe they have already know what do you want to become.
so let's look at several examples.
Our brain can not think by itself, it relies on the memory you input, the lazy and delay is humanity, you need to know this and you must know what you should do is the right thing when you facing the lazy and delay. And do the right thing is not right? We should and must do the right for better. You need to know this some humanity is not good for your growth, you know bad you still want to do? Remind yourself often about this, you will form a habit of no explaining through a conquering lazy process.
Actually, input and store more you will have more material for writing for using for thinking, etc. So stuff is the point, so you will know what you should do. Just do it and you will be more and more clear what you should do, like writing passage in this group, you can not write out but when you write down what and how you think you know where is the problem. Yes, this is called thinking in process.
No action, tools are worthless.
no thinking in the process, no real valuable cognition upgrade,
no cognition upgrade, no cognition difference,
no enough cognition difference, no success possibility.
Looking at yourself, what can make you do action?
The deadline, shame, guilt, vanity, sorry, embarassment, morality, principles, wish, if you don't know about this you need to learn, if you know this, you need to use them properly and do it definitely.
Recognizing, doing, forming habit, making a good recycle is the right thing. This is something must to be done.
For me, before, i can do something because of the shame or guilt, the root cause maybe i don't want to trouble or hurt others, so i would do something make that not happen or make up some pity. This is a kind of drive for me.
Another drive is morality, i would like to do something which is morality requirements, i want to be loyal to morality. That is right resonalbe i think, so i would like to do.
From this perspective, many things are the bridge or boat which can take you to somewhere or get something but what you want is the real drive and you also need to learn how to use the bridge or boat well. The meaning is not itself, it is what you can do with it, know this can avoid confusion or mistake.
Through looking at your own behaviours at a higher perspective, you will see what are you care about but you haven't think carefully before. But that is important.
We know metacognition is to cognize and understand your thinking process.
So, looking at your drive is important. Finding out it and changing or improving it, anyway, making it better.
What "mind" i need to change is shame and guilt, using "right" "meaning" "principles"as the "mind" is much better, and improving the "morality" mind.
What habit i need to eliminate completely is "entanglement" and the wrong habit of confusing cause and effect, i must correct it.
Cultivating oneself according to a kind of thing you believed like a kind of belief. That is important for one's growth.
Learning, action, improving, renew, and upgrading, become a more and more better oneself.
If you know about this, you still like giving up halfway? Then there are no drugs for you!
