1不要眼眶一红，就觉得人间不值得，散伙是人间常态，你我怎能例外。
Don't think the world is unworthy if you are sad and wanna cry. It's normal for people to break up. How can we make an exception.
2“和谁都别熟得太快，不要以为刚开始话题一致，共同点很多，你们就是相见恨晚的知音。”那些你以为一见如故的人，未必就值得你的托付和信任。
"Don't get familiar with anyone too quickly. Don't think you have the same topic at the beginning and have a lot in common，then you are bosom friends who regretted that you didn’t meet earlier."
Those people you think are like old friends at first sight may not be worthy of your trust.
3“无论对谁太过热情，就增加了不被珍惜的概率，倘若没有过度的欢喜，就不会有极度的悲伤。”
—《人间失格》
"Being too passionate increases the probability of not being cherished. If there is no excessive joy, there will be no extreme sadness."
4过于热情，不是一个维持良好关系的方法，与人相处最好冷淡一点。—蔡康永
Being too passionate is not a way to maintain
a good relationship. It's better to keep a distance with others.
5“每次想起在茫茫人海中，我们很可能错过认识的机会——太危险了。命运的安排多好。”—张爱玲
Every time the feeling that we are likely to miss the opportunity to know each other in the vast crowd - it's too worrying. What a good arrangement of destiny.
