励志传记(当今奇人周兴和)第四章第二节

劳燕分飞离故里

Separation with wife and hometown

周兴和已经有好长时间没回家了,他的企业管理刚刚收到初步成效,新型产品试验刚刚露出一些成功的端倪,尽管他用极大的耐心作了很大的忍让,但家庭的矛盾还是不可遏制地总爆发了。

Zhou Xinghe had not been home for a long time; his enterprise management had just received the preliminary results, and the new product experiment had just shown some signs of success; although he had great patience and great deal of tolerance, but the family conflict was still uncontrollably erupting.

那天上午,周兴和熬了一夜,正在和客户洽谈业务,刘凤琼来了。大概是家里经济出现些困难,她又毛焦火辣来找周兴和。当着客人的面,才说两句话,焦急的刘凤琼又面红耳赤和周兴和争执起来。当尴尬的客人从中劝说时,刘凤琼竟和客人也吵了起来!

That morning, Zhou Xinghe stayed up all night and was talking business with a client when Liu Fengqiong came. Probably there were some difficulties in the family economy, she was coming in a hurry for Zhou Xinghe. After a few words in the presence of the client, anxious Liu Fengqiong flushed and quarreled with Zhou Xinghe. When the embarrassed client persuaded between them, Liu Fengqiong unexpectedly quarreled with the client too!

“算了,刘凤琼,这是工作场合,不要在这里吵!”周兴和见此情形,气极难捺,他强忍怒火,“有什么事,我们自己回家去说。”

"Well, Liu Fengqiong, this is a work place, don't make noise here!" Seeing this, Zhou Xinghe was so angry that he tried to hold back his temper. "What's the matter? Let's go home and tell me."

刘凤琼也在气头上,她坚持不走。周兴和向客人道了歉,把刘凤琼拉回了家里。回到家,刘凤琼依然不依不饶,像要把这些日子来积聚在心中的怨气全都发泄出来。周兴和脸色铁青一言不发,妻子这些日子来过分的举止,早就激起了他极度的反感和愤怒。当刘凤琼大吵大闹,上前要和周兴和抓扯时,周兴和心里的积怨也总的爆发了,他狠狠给了刘凤琼一拳——这一拳打得很重,刘凤琼当即就大声呻吟起来!

Liu Fengqiong was also in anger, and she insisted not to leave. Zhou Xinghe apologized to his client and took Liu Fengqiong back home. Back home, Liu Fengqiong was still unrelenting, as if to vent out all the resentment accumulated in her heart in these days. Zhou Xinghe was pale and silent. His wife's excessive demeanour these days had already aroused his extreme disgust and anger. When Liu Fengqiong made scenes and came forward to catch and pull with Zhou Xinghe, the resentment in Zhou Xinghe's heart also broke out, and he gave Liu Fengqiong a punch - the punch was very heavy, and Liu Fengqiong immediately loudly moaned!

就是这一次冲突,夫妻两人的矛盾就更加激化了。刘凤琼住进了医院,在她愤怒已极时,向周兴和提出了离婚,要周兴和“滚回农村那个穷山沟去!”

It was this conflict that intensified the contradiction between the couple. Liu fengqiong was admitted to the hospital. In her anger, she asked Zhou Xinghe for a divorce and told him to "go back to the poor mountain valley in the countryside!"

几年来无休止的争执吵闹,思想观念上的巨大分歧,周兴和的小儿子也无人照料,自己的生活也无人过问,此时,周兴和对他与刘凤琼的婚姻已经完全心灰意冷,加之产品的研制也屡遭失败,思想上经济上承受着巨大的压力,他更是内外交困举步维艰。

With years of endless disputes and the huge difference on ideology, Zhou Xinghe's younger son was unattended, and his own life was also not taken care; at this point, Zhou Xinghe was completely dispirited and discouraged for his marriage with Liu Fengqiong; together with the failures in the development of the product, his ideological and economical conditions were both under tremendous pressure, and he was struggling in the external and internal difficulties.

在这种境况下,周兴和只好安顿好儿子,把他的全部时间和精力都投入到他的产品研制中来,只有在极度劳累极度疲乏中,他才可能忘却苦痛,忘记烦恼,忘却忧愁,忘记伤心。

Under such circumstances, Zhou Xinghe had to settle down his son and devote all his time and energy to the development of his products. It was only in extreme fatigue that he could forget his pains, his troubles, his sorrows, and his heartaches.

星光黯淡,晨霜暮雪。伴随着苦涩和孤独,周兴和的日子就这样一天天地打发着——是天命因果的夙旨,还是飘茵落溷的偶然,阴差阳错,正在周兴和最失意最低沉的日子里,另一个女人却意外地闯进他的视野来!

The stars were dim, and there were the morning frost and the evening snow. With bitterness and loneliness, Zhou Xinghe's life passed from day to day - it was the cause and effect of heaven, or just by accident. In the midst of zhou Xinghe's most frustrated and depressed days, another woman suddenly walked into his sight!

周兴和开办的建材厂旁边,是盐亭县烟草公司的仓库。仓库里有个管理员姓申——我们姑且就叫她小申吧。这时她刚满30岁,离异后带着一个小儿子生活。由于搞产品研究和生产,周兴和正好租用烟草公司院坝存放和晾晒产品。闲来无事时,小申怀着好奇心,经常去参观欣赏他们各种造型的产品。与此同时,她对成天沉默寡言搞研究、别人都说他是“狂人”的周兴和,也产生了好奇心,逐渐有了了解这个人的想法。

Next to Zhou Xinghe's building materials factory was the warehouse of Yanting Tobacco Company. There was a keeper in the warehouse named Shen - let's just call her Ms. Shen. She had just turned 30 years old and was divorced with a young son. As a result of product research and production, Zhou Xinghe happened to rent the tobacco company courtyard to store and air the products. Being free and at leisure, Shen with curiosity, often visited and appreciated Xinghe’s various shapes of products. At the same time, she also generated curiosity to Zhou Xinghe who did researches all day siliently and was called "madman" by others, and had the idea to get to know this person gradually.

处于人生低谷的周兴和,他其实也希望有人能了解和理解自己。见有人想了解他,他满腹的苦衷,满心的哀怨,以及他的抱负和理想,也渐渐向小申吐露出来。小申呢,其实也不甘心于每天守着偌大的一个仓库,过着平淡枯燥的日子,也想能在自己人生中有一番作为。慢慢地,她对周兴和了解后,她和他就有了共同的语言。周兴和从心底里对小申能够对自己创业艰辛的理解感到安慰,对有一个能理解自己的人吐露心声而感到安慰;小申呢,对周兴和艰苦创业的经历和刻苦钻研精神感到钦佩,对他不幸的境遇表示了深深的同情——人与人之间有了共同的语言,难免就有了交往的基础,一来二往,两人都逐渐产生出一种说不出的感觉来。

Zhou Xinghe, who was at a low point in his life, actually wanted someone to know and understand him. When he saw someone wanted to understand him, all his bitterness, sorrow, as well as ambition and dream, were also gradually exposed to Shen. While Shen, in fact, was not willing to just guard such a large warehouse every day, living a dull and boring life, but also wanted to be able to make a difference in her own life. Slowly, after she got to know Zhou Xinghe, she and he had a common language. From the bottom of his heart, Zhou Xinghe felt comforted by Shen's understanding of the hardships of starting his own business, and also felt comforted by having a person who could understand him. While Shen admired Zhou Xinghe for his hard work and his spirit of assiduous study, and expressed her deep sympathy for his misfortune. With a common language between two people, it was inevitable that they would have a basis for communication, and both of them gradually developed an indescribable feeling.

一个小小的盐亭城,就连张家的婆婆和媳妇吵了架,李家的老丈人和女婿打了捶,不到半天就会传遍全城,何况两个男女之间的频频接触呢!周兴和与小申交往的事,时间不长,就有那好事者把事情传到了刘凤琼耳朵里。这还了得!原本就受到丈夫冷落的刘凤琼,这一下更是不依不饶了,在和周兴和大吵一架后,将他推出了门,并向他下了最后通牒:“有我无她,有她无我,我们干脆离婚!不离婚,我就用死来成全你们!”

In the small town called Yanting, a quarrel broke out between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law of the Zhang’s family, or a blow between the father-in-law and son-in-law of the Li’s family would spread all over the town in less than half a day, not to mention the frequent contact between a man and a woman. The contact of Zhou Xinghe and Shen was heard by Liu Fengqiong before long. Well, Liu Fengqiong, who had been snubbed by her husband, became even more unrelenting. After a big quarrel with Zhou Xinghe, she pushed him out of the door and gave him an ultimatum: "She or me, make a choice, or let's just divorce! Otherwise, I will die to fulfill you!"

如此一闹,这件事就更弄得来满城风雨了——这种风雨,当然毫不留情地淋湿了周兴和与小申,但从某种意义上来说,又让两个被淋湿了的人只好同打一把伞,共同走到一个屋檐下去躲雨呀!

Such an uproar would make the affair all the more scandalous - this kind of scandal, of course, mercilessly poured to Zhou Xinghe and Shen, but in a sense, and it also let the two people be tied together, and connected more tightly!

在采访刘凤琼时,谈到两人离异的事,笔者明显感觉到,其实她对这件事的处理方式是有些后悔的。由此我就想到:有情人才成眷属,当初两人历尽艰辛走到了一起,就应当对这份来之不易的情份倍加呵护和珍惜。如果两人真的不想分手,不管是谁,当外面有风雨袭来时,他或她都不能把对方推出门外,而要想办法留在屋里。即使对方要出门,都应该给对方一把雨伞或一顶斗笠。这样,即使是在风雨袭来时,他或她就不会躲到别人屋檐下去避雨了呀!

In the interview with Liu Fengqiong, when talking about their divorce, the author obviously felt that she had some regrets about the way she handled this matter. From this, I think: only those who have love can be married; at the beginning, the two people went together through all the hardships, so they should be doubly care and cherish this hard-won love. If the two really don't want to break up, no matter for the male or female, when the storm strikes, he or she can't push the other out of the door, but find a way to stay inside together. Even if the other wants to go out, it should give each other an umbrella or a hat. In that way, even when the storm strikes, he or she won't be able to get under someone else's roof.

在风雨中过了半年多时间的周兴和,经过无数个日夜痛苦的考虑:既然与刘凤琼志不同道不合,既然这婚姻已经名存实亡,既然自己完全无法将未竟的事业进行下去,那好,离就离吧!最后,周兴和只好孤注一掷,在离婚协议书上签下了自己的名字。

In the wind and rain, Zhou Xinghe spent more than half a year, and after countless days and nights of painful consideration, he thought: since he and Liu Fengqiong had different goals, since this marriage had already existed in name only, and since he was completely unable to carry on the unfinished business, well, they shall divorce! In the end, Zhou Xinghe had to take a gamble and signed his name on the divorce paper.

或许刘凤琼只是想用“离婚”这两个字来要挟周兴和,让他在自己面前缴械投降。可当周兴和签了字,她反倒后悔不肯签字了!周兴和此时去意已定,面对刘凤琼的哭泣和泪水,他向她提出:“这几年你跟着我,过得也不容易。这样吧,离婚后,这家里的一栋房子、一切财产全部归你;外面的所有债务全部由我偿还,你只给我一纸离婚证书就行了。”

Perhaps, Liu Fengqiong just wanted to use the "divorce" to blackmail Zhou Xinghe and made him surrender in front of her. But when Zhou Xing signed it, she actually regretted and did not want to sign it! Zhou Xinghe had decided to leave; facing Liu Fengqiong's tears, Zhou Xinghe said to her, "It has not been easy for you to follow me these years. Well, after the divorce, the house and all the property of the family will belong to you; I'll pay all the debts out there. Just give me a divorce certificate."

离婚后,周兴和并没有立即和小申住在一起,由于怕刘凤琼在极度的忧郁中发生意外,周兴和在半年多的时间里并没离开家庭,当刘凤琼的情绪慢慢稳定后,他却由于身心劳累过度,染病住进了医院。

After divorce, Zhou Xinghe did not live with Shen immediately; because he was afraid of Liu Fengqiong to have an accident in extreme melancholy, Zhou Xinghe did not leave the family for more than half a year, and when Liu Fengqiong's mood stabilized slowly, he caught an illness to be hospitalized because of the overworked body and mind.

当周兴和一个人孤零零地躺在病床上,心力交瘁地思索着病愈后何去何从时,小申不避嫌疑请假来到了他的病床前,悉心照料周兴和。每当周兴和接过小申一杯水、一碗饭,他的心里都十分感动。同时,小申表示愿意辞去她的正式工作,以便背水一战,与周兴和白手起家,共同创业!

When Zhou Xinghe laid alone in the hospital bed, and mentally exhausted to think about what to do after recovered, Shen asked for leave from work and came to his hospital bed, and took good care of Zhou Xinghe. Every time Zhou Xinghe received a cup of water and a bowl of rice from Shen, his heart was deeply moved. Meanwhile, Shen said she was willing to quit her official job so that she and Zhou Xinghe could start their own business from scratch.

事业上能有知音,工作中能有帮手,生活上能有伴侣,能够理解和支持他把未竟的发明创造进行下去,帮助他实现自己的人生抱负,这是周兴和多年来梦寐以求的一个夙愿啊!从医院出来后,为寻求一个较为宽松的从事研究和创业的环境,避开周围人们的闲言冷语,特别是避开刘凤琼的干扰,周兴和毅然怀揣一纸离婚书,身背数十万元的债务,分别和小申离开盐亭县,到了绵阳市,开始了他们新的生活,重新又在这里创业了。

To have a bosom friend in his career, a helper in his work and a partner in his life, who could be able to understand and support him in carrying on his unfinished inventions and help him realize his ambition in life, it was a long-cherished dream of Zhou Xinghe for many years! Out of the hospital, in order to seek a relaxed environment for the research and entrepreneurship, to avoid the gossip of people around the cruel word, especially to avoid Liu Fengqiong’s interference, Zhou Xinghe resolutely carried the divorce paper, with hundreds of thousands of debts, and left Yanting with Shen respectively, and started their new life and entrepreneurship in Mianyang City.

这是1994年的初春。这一年,周兴和已经到了不惑之年。

It was the early spring of 1994. This year, Zhou Xinghe had reached 40 years old.

然而,在绵阳这陌生的环境中,他们将又会遭遇到什么呢?福兮?祸兮?

However, in this strange environment in Mianyang, what would they encounter? Fortune? Misfortune?

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