We used to be evaluated by others not by ourselves. We can't stop others thinking and speaking why we put ourselves into a situation where judges by others.
Someone will like you while someone will not. It is an unexpected thing and you haven't any energy to stop it. So why you care about it especially a words or different opinions. That is really unimportant. It can't help us to grow up just stop us to feel the beauty of the world.
Maybe I have been cared about others words or opinions a lot. In contrary it also hurts me a lot. I gradually cured by the reading. They helped me a lot. I am so lucky. Thanks.
