In our lives, the various people surrounding our lives, everyone has different habits and behavior, someone lets others trust them, let others give the chance again and again, but someone lets others don't trust them, let the people depart from them, because they have bad habits and deeds.

        If you want became a man successfully, you should have what habit, more years ago, I asked myself some questions, about the attitude and manner, I had reading  a lot of books, this books contains the psychology, contains the autobiography, and a lot of books want teach you, how to be a successful man, but a pretty of books just want teach you how to control others people, not control yourself, but if you want fulfilling your destiny and mission, you must learning how to control yourself, and cultivate the good habit to yourself.

        Nearby in your life, you cannot have the correct senses give you correct judgments, more times we give ourself more over score than the true score, because in our mind we always don't want admission the truth, maybe we are not enough excellence, maybe it's confident, maybe it's overconfidence, one other hand, the people cannot give themself the right evaluate, if you give your 100 evaluate, maybe it's just 80 really.

        So you need objective evaluation and right behavior, because the secret about leadership is influence. If you don't have a good habit and behavior, people don't want to follow you. They just want to leave you. You should cultivate your circumstances and environment and make you have some attraction to attracting followers.

        righteousness is good manners, being a leader, faithfulness is good manners, being a leader. In my mind, I think everyone's fate is a leader, but when we were born, we lost ourselves, and forget our destiny, and don't have the courage to be a leader, but if you have the right behavior, you will have the influence and then you will be a leader.

        We always ask yourself, why not me, why not me, when you ask your the question once again, you can getting yourself from the answer, everyone should be a leader of themself, you decides who you are, you decides what you want, you decides where you will in, it's yourself, now others else, no one can defined your life, no one can defined your future, you are your unique host, you, only you.

        You're your leader, never forget the secret.