Appendix
Instructions and Items of the FICO
项目的说明
Instructions: These sentences regard the way you feel in your current romantic relationship. Please consider your current romantic partner and indicate the extent to which you agree with each statement, according to the following scale:
说明：这些句子反映了您在当前恋爱关系中的感受。 请考虑您当前的恋人伴侣，并按照以下标准指出您对每种说法的同意程度：
1= totally disagree;2= disagree;3= agree and disagree;4=agee;5= totally agree.
1. prefer not to show my partner certain aspects of my personality.
不想让我的伴侣看到我性格的某些方面。
2. What bothers me the most in a relationship is when I feel that my partner is invading my space.
在一段关系中最困扰我的是当我觉得我的伴侣正在侵占我的空间。
3. I try to hide my weaknesses from my partner.
我试图向伴侣隐藏自己的弱点.
4. I don't like to justify myself to my partner.
我不喜欢向我的伴侣证明或者解释自己。
5. I sometimes hide the truth so my partner doesn't get disappointed.
我有时会掩盖事实，以免我的伴侣感到失望。
6. When I have personal decisions to make, I like to make them without my partner.
当我要做出个人决定时，我喜欢在没有我的伴侣的影响下做出决定。
7. In order to avoid my partner to think poorly of me, there are things I don't show/tell.
为了避免我的伴侣对我不好的看法，有些事情我不会展示/说出来。
8. It bothers me when I have to adjust myself to my partner.
当我不得不调整自己去适应我的伴侣时，我会感到困扰。
9. I feel that my partner may get a negative image of me if he/she knows all about myself.
我觉得如果我的伴侣了解我所有的情况，他/她可能会对我产生负面印象。
10. I try to preserve my space so I safeguard my autonomy.
我试图保留自己的空间，以维护自己的自主权.
FLO: items 1, 3,5,7,9
fls: items2,4,6,8,10.
