Before the
discussion begins ,let me briefly describe the selection of the story ON THE
BEACH ,a cinnabar and a touch of white moonlight in my heart ,an unforgettable
love between XvWenqiang and FengChengcheng .
论述开始以前,让我简述一下故事的选材上海滩,一颗我心头的朱砂痣,一抹我心里的白月光,许文强和冯程程之间的悲剧爱情.
It should
be one word ,two space ,however, they begin to know ,refuse understand ,love
and finally hurt each other.
一个世界，两个空间，在某天相遇,,相识，相拒，相爱，相互伤害。
Nobody
chose to comprise in name of youth ,maybe ,so less still will they play rogue
before fate ,until it is too late .
许是年轻，谁都不愿妥协，更不会在命运面前放低姿态耍无赖，直到一切都已来不及。
Die or hurt
,what actually left was endless sorrow and sadness .
结局只剩悲凉,一死一伤.
SO
1,what is the
true meaning of love ?
1,爱的真谛究竟是什么?
It ,is “Meet the people you want to meet among thousands of people. In the
thousands of years, the endless wilderness of time, there is no early step, no
late step, just happened to catch up.”
. 爱是张爱玲的于千万人之中，遇见你要遇见的人。于千万年之中，时间无涯的荒野里，没有早一步，也没有迟一步
It is “"I will visit
my only soul partner in the vast sea of people. I am fortunate. No, my life”
爱是徐志摩的我将于茫茫人海中访我唯一灵魂之伴侣；得之，我幸；不得，我命。
It is “I walked through
many places, walked through bridges in many places, saw many times of clouds,
drank many kinds of wine, but only loved a person of the best age.”
爱是沈从文的我行过许多地方的桥，看过许多次数的云，喝过许多种类的酒，却只爱过一个正当最好年龄的人。
To conclude ,what we call love is only At least once in a lifetime,
Forgot someone for someone,
Not seeking results,
Not seeking peers,
Not seeking to have it,
Don't even ask you to love me.
Just want to meet you in my most beautiful years
所以,爱的本源或许就是:一生至少该有一次，为了某个人而忘了自己，不求有结果，不求同行，不求曾经拥有，甚至不求你爱我，只求在我最美的年华里，遇到你
2,How to love freely
and emotionally ?
2,这样才能爱的轰轰烈烈,潇潇洒洒?
Maybe you’ll say ,’Like a person, will humble to the dust, then bloom”
Maybe you’ll say ,”Because knowing, so
compassion”
Maybe you’ll say ,” Love you, for your happiness, I am
willing to give up everything including you”
That is what zhangailing taught us
因为懂得,所以慈悲;
“见了他，她变得很低很低，低到尘埃里。但她的心里是喜欢的，从尘埃里开出花来。
我爱你 为了你的幸福，我愿意放弃一切--包括你
这是张爱玲给我们的回答.
Maybe you’ll say ,”I understand
that you will come back, so I am waiting for you.”
That is what
shencongwen taught us .
我知道你会来,所以我等.
这是沈从文给我们的回答
To conclude , d o not be confused, not trapped in love, not
afraid of the future, do not read the past. So, good
总之就是:不乱于心,不困于情.不畏将来,不念过去.如此安好
3缘何爱?
.”
Here ,just
let me give reasons in name of quotation .
在这里,我想引用几篇古代文人志士的文章
There is a
beautiful person, and you will never forget it. I don’t see you in a day,
thinking like crazy. Feng Fei snorkeled and greeted the phoenix. Helpless
ladies, not in the East Wall. I will sing the lyrics and write about it. See
you in the day, and comfort me. Wish to match virtue, hand in hand. I am not
allowed to fly and make me die.
有一美人兮，见之不忘。
一日不见兮，思之如狂。
凤飞翱翔兮，四海求凰。
无奈佳人兮，不在东墙。
将琴代语兮，聊写衷肠。
何日见许兮，慰我彷徨。
愿言配德兮，携手相将。
不得於飞兮，使我沦亡。,<凤求凰>
A Pledge
By heaven,
I shall love
you
To the end of
time!
Till mountains
crumble,
Streams run
dry,
Thunder rumbles
in winter,
Snow falls in
summer,
And the earth
mingles with the sky —
Not till then
will I cease to love you!
我欲与君相知，
长命无绝衰。
山无陵，
江水为竭，
冬雷震震，
夏雨雪，
天地合，
乃敢与君绝！<上邪>
he world callous,
And people mean,
Rain at twilight hastens flowers'
fall.
Morning wind dry,
Smeared tears stains.
Letters about heartaches,
Soliloquyes by the balustrade.
Hard, hard, hard!
Everyone for himself,
Today not yesterday,
Ghost of sickness like swing
ropes haunts.
Horns chilling,
Night receding.
Scared of people inquiring,
Swallowing tears and to look merry
pretending.
Hide, hide, hide!
红酥手，黄縢酒，满城春色宫墙柳。东风恶，欢情薄。一怀愁绪，几年离索。错、错、错。
春如旧，人空瘦，泪痕红浥鲛绡透。桃花落，闲池阁。山盟虽在，锦书难托。莫、莫、莫<钗头凤>
It’s
a couple, and there’s
no doubt about love.
Life is coming back, death is a longevity
结发为夫妻,恩爱两不疑.生当复来归,死当长相思.<留别妻>
If I should see you，after long year.
How should I greet, with tears, with silence.
此去经年,应是良辰好景虚设,执手相看泪眼,竟无语凝噎<雨霖铃>.
To conclude ,that is b ecause ,”You ask me to love
you worthwhile, in fact, you should know that love is not worth asking”
所以,爱是因为”你问我爱你值比值得，其实你应该知道，爱就是不问值不值得”
Because ,”The butterfly is the soul of flowers, the thought
of the immortality of flowers, to find the vows of this life”.
因为”蝶是花的精魂,是花前世不灭的思念,来寻找今生的誓言.”
4,what-if love is
not allowed ?
如果:一生所爱是你,爱而不得是你
There is no love in
this world, not a riddled hole
这个世界上,没有哪一段爱情不是历尽沧桑,.
Equal suffering and
suffering inequality
然而,所以平等的爱一个人,到头来终究是爱一个人的不平等
