其实自己都很奇怪为什么会如此喜欢一部电视剧，去喜欢上6个根本不存在的人之间发生的根本不存在的事。——就当作一个引子吧。
However，在十多年，几乎无法亲身接触真实社会的学习生活中，他们带给我的，绝不只是joy一词可以概括的。六主角丰富且多面的性格，或多或少都映射出自己的某些希望和失落吧。或许是一句俗话，但随着自己所处阶段的不同，每一次重看老友记，都会催生出对主题句新的理解。他们也告诉我，友谊的小船，绝不会说翻就翻，它能承载的，也不仅仅是友谊。
Here're some of the pieces they curved in my memory.
"I just want to be married again."
Ross to other guys.
——S01E01
Sometimes,maybe it's just one glimpse that decide your next ten years' way ahead.
Joey:What's wrong with Julie?
Ross:She's not Rachel.
Ross:You know what?If it were the other way around,there's nothing you could put on a list that would make me not want to be with you.
Rachel:Well, I guess that's the difference between us.See, I will never make a list.
——S02E08
There's no single need to find reasons to be or not to be with someone.All that matters is that if he/she is right to you.
"You're worth the wait,and I don't just mean tonight."
Rachel to Ross
——S02E15
It may take some time to realize your feelings for the one.But when you do, you'll find that you are both waiting for each other.
"If you hadn't said 'if I have to 'like seventeen times,then I would be saying 'ok,let's do it.'"
Monica to Richard
——S02E24
You want to do something for your loved one,not because of obligation,but out of your own will.
When you think "I have to do something to satisfy him/her" ,the relationship has become your burden.
"Let's take a break,a break from us."
Rachel to Ross
That night,Ross got drunk,and,slept with another girl.
——S03E15
Personally, I think it's the stupidest thing he had ever done.
We'll all meet the boundaries set on our road,face to face,and when they come,try to stay sober and avoid the things you will regret for the rest of your life.
Remember,there isn't always chance you could make up for what you've done.
Here's what Rachel said
Before going to London:
I'm going to London and tell Ross I love him.
When she got to the cathedral:
I just need to come and tell you,congratulations.
——S04E24
Nobody can tell you whether to let go or hold on,it's all up to yourself.Nobody's opinion matters to you except your own.
Monica:Chandler,in all my life,I never thought I'd be so lucky as to fall in love with my best (friend)……there's a reason why girls don't do this!
Chandler:I thought it mattered what I said and where I said it .Then I realized the only thing that matters is that you made me happier than I ever thought I could be .And if you let me, I'll spend the rest of my life trying to make you feel the same way.
——Monica,will you marry me?
——I knew were likely to take a wife!
S06E25
Those who take commitment seriously often have fear of committing the things that they value.
However,once you get commitment from those people,you can be one hundred percent sure that you are highly unlikely to lose them.
Rachel:How come Monica and Chandler could do it?(sleep with each other)
Joey:I guess they weren't as good friends as we are.
——S10E03
Sometimes,it's easy to fall in love with a friend who you already have and trust.
Sometimes,it isn't.
Like those two,only after trying can we find the answer.
I got off the plane.
Rachel to Ross,who is waiting for her call.
——S10E18
It took these two people almost ten years to realize and admit that they love each other and can not be separated.They even had a girl during the process.
Is it worthwhile?All those struggle and pain they went through?
Personally, I believe the tears and smiles, from the bottom of the heart of the people you love ,will tell you, you deserve each other.
最后，用Phoebe对Monica说的一句话，作为这个可以看作是集锦的总结。
No matter what I tried to do, I couldn't keep you out of my life.
尽管是从一个比较反面的角度做的阐释，但如果能被keep out of的人，大概也无法把friend这个称呼送给ta吧
All in all,they taught me that once I said I'll be there for you to someone,I must be prepared to realize every word of it.
The end.
