Love, life, these two are surely the things every single human being cannot expect to bypass lightly. They are essential to every human being. Love and life are like leaves on the tree and grass on the weirs. Leaves and grass have their own rule of living...nature determines it. So love and life can be best enjoyed when we treat them in the natural way. That is, in accordance with the rule of nature, too much human effort will only spoil them. They are the best when they are most natural.
...... Yeats