I'm not literally someone like a beauty.

My appearance is ... say, something acceptable. Most people are like this. So I don't think there's too much sense of taking care of the apperance thing.

Neat and pleasant, that's enough.

So, what else?

I'm a person average on look, so?

So I think that gives more possibility for areas else where. Say, writing, or pursuing a certain career.

Anyway, humanity had created such ground field of careers and until today, it's still updating. There must be somthing one can do.

I'm not going to say that "Appearence is nothing important", and looking unplesant is somthing good. But what I'm suggesting here is that people can choose to avoid. Yes. It's equal for everyone to choose where to pay more attention and where not. 

After being aware of this point, then?

They we start to think and evaluate ourselves. We can start with three simple questions, which could be the very reasons of most of our unhappiness.

Do you know who you are?

Do you know what had happened to you?

Do you want to to live this way?

Indeed, I mean. Really go through these questions, without the  disturbing of the outside world, go through your own mind, see what was wrong with you, or inother words, what you can change with yourself.  And try to act, dealing with difficulty, and carry your way out. And, indeed, see if there will be any difference. 

It's easy to complain, or to blame all the other factors in your life. 

BUT, how about forget the "pain" you are experiencing? Like Lucy said in the movie shared the same name, "...this moment all you know is pain, pain blocks your mind." It is. Get a bit courage to see things through and get a bit self-disipline. You can have a try, I bet you this is the way you get most reward in your life if we see it as a investment.

So, next time you see a person who's admirable, not just thinking about his/her acheivements or appearence, consider a little bit more about the relations between the two factors and his/her choice maybe.

I'll say he/she won't be bothered by the average of less average face, or a not so profoud mind.  'Niemand ' ist perfect. But we try our best. That much simple.