every person has his or her own thoughts during different periods. just like me, when i was a middle school student, i was addicted to reading 武侠 novels of jinyong. i felt at that time,once i opened his novels, it soon immersed me into that dynastry and could totaly forgot current hurt or unhappiness. at that time, not like today that we can buy jinyong's novels on interent.
no ,we only rented the book. and need to spend about 1 yuan one week to rent it. so at that time my dream was to get all the novels written by jinrong. but later ,after i graduated and had enough money to buy the novels, i felt it rediculous why i should had such a dream at that time.
and now, you and your future husband are decorating your wedding house, and you both are full of hope for the future. of course, now you think judging a person's success depends on wheter he can make people around him happy or not. that is right.you both will hold a big wedding ceremony. and you deserve that,also your oral english is very nice. when you are at my age, i hope you will not worry about the money problem。