走出去,让故事发生
American aviator Elinor Smith once said,"It has long since come to my attention that people of accomplishment rarely sat back and let things happen to them. They went out and happened to things".
It's so true. To reach your goals in life, you must seize the initiative. If you're feeling bad about not being asked out on dates, don't just sit around and sulk, do something about it. Find ways to meet people. Be friendly and try smiling a lot. Ask them out. They may not know how great you are.
有成就的人很少坐在原地等事情发生,他们走出去,让事情发生。
非常喜欢这句话。曾经的我一直都被动等待别人的邀约或邀请,从不主动去创造机会。所以一直进步缓慢,所谓的低调其实是懒。懒得动手动脑。为什么不去创造故事呢?那样生命该是多么有意思。想起了我与cathy 的故事。曾跟人讲起我们的相识相知,很多人听了都觉得像是传奇故事,可就是那一次次的留言,还有在物理上主动去接近偶像,无数次的行动,然后一个个美好的时光就那么被创造出来啦。更没想到的是后来我们的故事被Cathy 写进书籍《Cathy 与你》,我就这样被更多的人知道啦,上次看到楠友读书后的分享真的是很激动呢,看,这又是一个美好,感恩节又去看了姐姐,依然在她的课堂,总是那么的亲切自然大方自信,她的同事也因为读了我们的故事很感动说见着真人啦,哈哈,这又是创造出来的一个美好,故事连成串,美好接二连三,真的好喜欢这种感觉,走出去,向前一步,主动付出,让故事发生,单调的生活会因为这些故事变得有趣,温暖,闪闪发光。