职场新人：爱我的和我爱的我选择了我爱的不知道她现在过的怎么样

总有的人结婚的时候跟脑子进水了一样闭着眼睛挑了个选手就随便嫁个随便娶个，婚后就开始各种吐槽各种闪离，又有时候就会惦念起十八年前的那些初恋热恋的破事，土味情话啥的，究竟男嘉宾女选手们都是嫁给了啥样的小伙伴呢？总有人会说找一个对自己的好的，找自己自己中意的就可以了。其实我觉得这个就是明显男生女生的差异。找一个喜欢自己的，愿意把心都给他，他不会舍得让你受到一点点伤害，会去包容你的各种小任性，愿意为你摘星星摘月亮。

Some

people get married when they get married. If they pick up a player with

their eyes closed, they will just marry a random one. After marriage,

they will start to sneak in various kinds of spit, and sometimes they

will mourn for eighteen years. The former first love and love breaks,

the taste of the earth, the male guests and the female players are

married to the kind of small partners? Some people will always say that

they are looking for a good person, and they can find their own

favorite. In fact, I think this is the difference between boys and

girls. Find a person who likes himself and is willing to give him his

heart. He will not be willing to let you suffer a little bit of injury.

He will tolerate your various arbitrariness and willing to pick the

stars for you.

面朝大海，春暖花开

但是你有想清楚没有呢？他可能是一时喜欢你，有一天也会因为太喜欢你其他的就无法给你，又或者某一天他不喜欢你了，那你又剩下了什么呢？一个人又回到了原点。麻烦清醒一点，不要满眼都是他的好，毕竟爱情保鲜不保时。

But do you want to know clearly? He may be like you for a while, and one day he will not be able to give it to you because he likes you too much, or one day he doesn't like you, then what are you left? One person has returned to the origin. Troublesome, don't be full of his eyes, after all, love is not guaranteed.

不知道你的她现在过得怎么样，如果单身，希望她能够遇见真正疼爱她的人，也希望她不再为了伪精致去浪费时间，很多东西都不会一直陪伴着你的，要明白自己用心了尽力了才会真正得到想要的幸福。如果闭着眼睛随便挑选了一个选手，这样未来会幸福吗？

I don't know how you are doing now. If she is single, I hope she can meet someone who really loves her. I also hope that she will no longer waste time for pseudo-exquisiteness. Many things will not always accompany you. I must understand myself. If you do your best, you will really get the happiness you want. If you choose a player casually with your eyes closed, will you be happy in the future?

就算是他能满足了你的伪精致，那你又背后付出了什么呢？其实我就是那种跟渣男谈了五年对象从没有花过对方一分钱的女选手，其实精英身边全部都是精英，我身边的女孩子也都是很优秀，鞋子包包化妆品上千上万也都是自己安排，这样的女孩够能够遇到真爱也是很正常的。就像那些女生为了一部手机就出卖了自己还有男孩子为了一部手机就换走了肾，那些真的是他们想要的吗？

Even

if he can satisfy your pseudo-exquisiteness, what are you paying

behind? In fact, I am the kind of female player who has talked with the

scum for five years and never spent a penny on the other side. In fact,

all the elites are elites. The girls around me are also very good, and

the shoes and bags are thousands of cosmetics. Tens of thousands of

people are also arranged by themselves. It is normal for such a girl to

be able to meet true love. Just like the girls sold out for a mobile

phone and the boys changed their kidneys for a mobile phone. Are they

really what they want?

未来，希望你能够遇见真爱，跟自己真正喜欢的人和事在一起，满眼都是幸福，会比你的那些伪精致的物质物品要来的幸福感高级的多。等到那个时候，你会满眼都是他，你会跟世界骄傲的说，他是我的。你会看着他的眼睛就像是打赢了很多年的战场，他就是你背后付出了一切最终获取的战利品。不仅目前你眼里的的他就是满心欢喜，会成为你一直相爱下去的人。

the future, I hope that you will meet true love, be with people and

things you really like, full of happiness, and more advanced happiness

than your pseudo-exquisite material items. By that time, you will be

full of him, you will be proud of the world, he is mine. You will look

at his eyes like a battlefield that has won many years. He is the trophy

that you have finally got behind you. Not only is he in your eyes right

now, he is full of joy and will be the one you have always loved.

没关系的，就算是他在某一天离开你，你也不会难过，至少跟他的那几年里，一起浪费掉的青春里是快乐的。不在是内心满是焦虑满是看不到的未来，想要走开却没有办法。其实如果真的在某天他离开了，你也依然热爱着你自己的事情，拥有自己的小闲暇时光至少还没有丢失掉自我。你甚至可以开心骄傲的说出来，是我扔了你。等到和他分开了，你自己能够活的更开心了更洒脱了，日子甚至更好了，每一天都会变得更好，未来，都会遇见更好的自己。

doesn't matter, even if he leaves you someday, you won't be sad, at

least in his years, the youth that was wasted together is happy. Nothing

is full of anxiety and full of invisible future. There is no way to go

away. In fact, if you really leave one day, you still love your own

things, and have at least not lost yourself in your own leisure time.

You can even say it with pride and pride, I threw you. When you are

separated from him, you can live more happily and more freely. The days

are even better. Every day will be better. In the future, you will meet

yourself better.

去找到那个爱你的人吧，跟他分享你的所有快乐悲伤一起做个快乐的沙雕，和他在一起恨不得时间马上停掉，舍不得分开的每分每秒。但是请不要去遇见一个只是喜欢你的人但是你内心又不喜欢的人。不然，对于你和他来说多的都是一份负担和煎熬，精神上的那种折磨，也是对自己和他的那份不认真不负责。你如果说，现在的你对他还是犹豫，但是未来可能会很肯定。但是如果你试图去慢慢喜欢他，内心里你会高兴吗？假如只是因为你一时对于他有点不甘心，或者只是被他一时吸引，那真的不是爱情。希望未来的她，能够遇见真正喜欢的选手。其实，我们并不是初遇，我们只是重逢。