We have been in many tests.
As a Chinese student，I have many bad experiences in exam.
Every time my father asks me a test which was end in ancient time，I really don't want to talk to him.
In my inner mind，they just care for test rather than me as a student.To my great disappointment，the only thing they focus on is the result of the event not the process something about my Uncontrollable nervousness、my Unbearable anxiety and uncertain mood.
My friend mother will lock her in her bedroom if she didn't have a good performance in the exam.Also to my cherished father ，I know he is always busy and obliged to do more things than me，but he just ask the consequence of my three-month-aged testing.
I don't think a great number of parents are not aware of their children，even loved their children deeply，but the reality is that child lost the initial pleasure in study.
If I do well in exam，I don't feel pleased.I will tell myself for ——that is not a bad thing.However，as if I have a bad result just for a single time，I will keep on feeling bad，judging myself a loser.
There merely are not satisfied and not unsatisfied.It's not a good state in study.Winning is all the thing，while failure means there is non-meaningful.The elasticity between both sides is too little.
Indeed，when you are at the age to try everything what you want even if it is little meaning for you growth，it's the real value of salad days.In addition，in the way to strive to success，no failure means no scenery.
your uncomfortable feelings are not anyone's fault. It only shows that we have demanding demands.
If your parents try to love you in their best way as well，don't complaint them.Just adjusting yourself on your own is also a filial duty.
我们从未离开考试
作为一个中国学生，我有很多关于考试的糟糕体验
每次当我爸爸问我一些很早的考试结果时，我都不想和他说话
在我内心深处，他们只是关心考试而不是作为学生的我。更令人失望的是他们只关心结果不关心过程，包括我忍不住的紧张、难以忍受的焦虑和飘忽不定的心绪的艰难过程
如果我朋友没有取得一个好成绩，她很有可能被她的妈妈所在自己的房间里。就算是我很爱的爸爸也只是会问三个月前的考试结果，即时我知道他很忙并且他需要扛的责任比我多的多
我不认为大部分都父母不是孩子的有心人，甚至很爱他们，但事实的真相是很多孩子失去了学习最初的快乐
如果我取得好成绩，我不会很高兴，我只会和自己说还好，还好不是很糟糕。但是如果我在考试中有一次失败了，我会一直有一种念想——自己挺失败的
考试后的感受只有两种：不满意和没有不满意。这不是一种好的学习状态。成功就仿佛拥有一切，失败就好像一无所有，这中间的弹性太小了
事实上年轻的时候你愿意去试错，做一些你想做但意义不大的事情也没有关系。那些尝试才是你青春岁月里最宝贵的东西。并且，在奋斗的路上，没有失败就好像没有了风景
你不好的状态不是任何一个人的错，这只是时代对于我们的要求更高了而已
如果你的父母也尽全力用他们认为最好的方式来对待你，请不要抱怨他们。调整好自己的状态，更好地生活也是一种孝心
