We tell our kids it doesn`t matter if you win or lose .
but let`s be honest .
winning feels pretty great .
There`s nothing like that golden moment in the sun .
I think every parent probably wants that for their child.
And maybe a little bit for ourselves too .
Sometimes we push too hard .
And that leads to a lot of resentment and guilt .
So how much is too much? Here`s where i come out .
Guilt fades .Hardware is forever .
