The friendship between young girls is very subtle. It is like the relationship among the lovers. There can be jealousy and rivals. Only the similar persons can attract each other. Therefore, if you want to make friends with outstanding people, you must become excellent as them first. One girl said to me she wanted to get close with elite,because she thought it could be beneficial to her self-improvement. But what she doesn't know was that the friendship is mutual. If the two persons can't attract or need with each other, and have huge difference, their friendship can not last a long time, just like blind love. Maybe the link of friends is not wholly determined by wether you have good marks, beautiful appearance and large wealth. What is more important is the coherence of the two hearts.
女孩子之间的友谊也是很微妙的。就像情侣之间一样，也会吃醋也有情敌。陈果说，只有同等能量的人才能相互吸引。所以，你想交到什么样的朋友就要先努力成为什么样的人。记得我以前的一个同学说她想和优秀的人交朋友，因为她觉得这样做可以提高自己的素质。只是她不了解的一点是，友谊是相互的。假如两个人不是相互欣赏或者彼此需要，而是相差悬殊的话，那么就像单恋一样，是不会有美好结局的。也许拉近两颗心的并不全是优异的成绩，姣好的外貌，富裕的家境，而更重要的是心灵的契合。
