【TED训练营2021.12.22-2022.1.21】：4/10
一、反馈时间：2021.1.6
二、视频题目：乔布斯斯坦福大学演讲
三、深刻理解到的内容是
1. Connecting the dots（连点成线）
（1）Birth ……Be adopted……Dropped out of the college……Dropping in on something looked interesting……Started Apple in a garage……Got fired……Very public failure……Started NeXT & Pixar……Fell in love……Retuned to Apple……Diagnosed with cancer……Be cured……Kept Apple great……Dead……
——Great man！
（2）None of this had even a hope of any practical application in my life. But ten years later, when we were designing the first Macintosh computer, it all came back to me. And we designed it all into the Mac.（一切都算数）
（3）Again,you can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.（念念相续）
2. Love and loss
（1）I didn’t see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life.
（2）And I fell in love with an amazing woman who would become my wife. And Laurene and I have a wonderful family together.
（3）In a remarkable turn of events, Apple bought NeXT, I retuned to Apple, and the technology we developed at NeXT is at the heart of Apple’s current renaissance.
（失之东隅,收之桑榆；爱如在，塞翁失马焉知非福）
3. Death
（1）Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important.（唯死亡能辨别轻重真假）
（2）Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.（世间事，除了生死，哪一件事不是闲事。）
（3）No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life’s change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.（成住坏空；新陈代谢）
四、我对这个视频的点评
没有脱稿，没有慷慨激昂的讲述，却深入人心，成为世界最经典的演讲之一。演讲的最重要的3个元素：真诚，用自己的方式表达，传递有价值的内容。
五、如果我来讲我会借鉴
对生活的思考；对生命的探索；看见死亡。
六、金句
1.I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life and no idea how college was going to help me figure it out. So I decided to drop out and trust that it would all work out OK. It was pretty scary at the time, but looking back it was one of the best decisions I ever made.
2.And much of what I stumbled into by following my curiosity and intuition turned out to be priceless later on.
3.It was beautiful, historical, artistically subtle in a way that science can’t capture, and I found it fascinating.
4.It was awful tasting medicine, but I guess the patient needed it. Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don’t lose faith. I’m convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did.
5.You’ve got to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do.
6.If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on.
7.If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you’ll most certainly be right.
8. "If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?" And whenever the answer has been "No" for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.
9.Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.
10.Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.
