Everyone is eager to be understood,
But in our life there are still full of misunderstanding.
You are tangled, you are unhappy,
And till the end, you keep quiet.
You find nobody to share your feeling; you can find no one to talk to,
And in the end, you have no words to say.
So sometimes
Keeping silent, is a man's most powerful struggle;
Staying smiling, is a man's best disguise.
Then, what is the meaning of understanding?
A glance, an embrace,
A sentence, a bottle of wine, or a cup of tea,
But in fact, none of them is.
The true understanding,
Is the tacit feeling of comprehension,
Is the forgiveness and concern between you and others!
If there is more understanding, the warmer our society will be.
If there is more understanding, the more impressive you will feel.
If there is more understanding, the more beautiful things our world with happen.
The understanding is reciprocal,
You would be understood only if you try to understand others first.
Will you get a return if always ask for blindly?
The understanding is a kind of perspective taking,
Also a perception of life.
Only those who have open minds are able to understand other's demand with the goodness of humanity.
The understanding is the cornerstone of happiness,
With this, you can bring happiness for other people.
Living in this world, please walk along with understanding,
Understanding others is also the understanding of ourselves.
Learn to be understanding; actually we learn to be kind to ourselves.
With more understanding, complaints will be less.
With less hurt, the love will be stronger.
理 解
每个人都渴望被理解，
但生活中还存在着那么多的误解。
你纠结，你委屈，你难过，
最后到无语沉默；
你无处排解，你无人可说，你无处诉说，
最终到无话可说。
所以有时候：
沉默，是一个人最大的哭声；
微笑，是一个人最好的伪装。
理解是什么？
一个眼神，一个拥抱，一次握紧，
一句话，一杯酒，还是一杯茶，
其实都不是。
理解是：
是心与心的疼惜与懂得；
是一辈子的谅解和牵挂！
多一份理解，就多一份温暖；
多一份理解，就多一份感动；
多一份理解，就会多一层美好。
理解是相互的，
只有首先去理解别人，
才能被别人所理解，
如果都只是一味的去索取又哪来回报。
理解是一种换位思考，
也是对人生的一种领悟。
只有胸怀坦荡的人，
才会用人性的善良，
去理解别人的需求。
理解是幸福的基石，
理解会给别人带去幸福。
人生在世，请与理解相随，
理解别人，也理解自己。
学会理解，
其实最终我们是在善待自己。
理解多了，抱怨少了，
伤害少了，爱也就浓了。
