李丽突然想起一年前在蓬莱阁遇到一位60多岁的女士，当时她看上去只有40岁，白嫩的皮肤，黑色的头发，她的老公就站在边上，看上去就像她的父亲一样，李丽站在她的后面，简直不敢相信，简直惊掉了下巴，李丽无法想象，面前站的这一位看上去只有40岁的优雅女士竟然60多了，真的无法想象，当她拿出身份证去给售票员买票的时候，连售票员都无法相信，拿着身份证对照着看了一遍又一遍，问了一遍又一遍：“这是你的身份证吗？”
李丽站在她的身后，偷偷的看了她好几遍，简直无法相信这是真的。面对优雅的女士，同样为女性的李丽都偷偷的看了好几遍，何况是男性呢？！所以女人要对自己好一点，好好护肤好好待自己！
曾经看过无数本关于礼仪仪表的书，也读过很多这方面的文章，也知道人的外貌，仪表，服饰都很重要，但是从来没有真正从心里走过。记得以前中央台有一档很有名的节目，已经记不清叫什么名了，就是关于蜕变，关于人的外在着装的改变。嘉宾首先要将自己十分珍惜十分疼爱的一件旧物放到风筒里，被收走。这就好比是人必须要抛弃旧有的观念，旧有的形式才可能走向崭新的未来。这种从旧到新的蜕变，必须要忍痛割爱，必须要先舍，否则会永远停留在旧有的事物里，停留在旧有的思维。舍弃旧物之后才是改变的开始，从着装，发型等等改变。一个蜕变的贵妇人由此产生。着装发型的改变不仅仅是外在的改变，而是一种内心的改变，确切的说是自信的改变。
一个人一旦拥有了自信，在所有的事情上他都会勇往直前，所向披靡。就像文中的红衣服，它不仅仅是一件红衣服，一种外在的形式，而是一种内在自信的展示。
Unexpected Lily thought a madam who is more than 60 years old one year ago in peng lai ge.The madam looks like only 40 years old who has fair complexion skin and blank hair.Her husband who looks like her father just stood beside her.Lily stood behind the madam, she really can't believe her eyes.
When the madam showed her certificate of identification to the conductor.The conductor also can't believe what she saw.She looked at the ID card and the madam,asked the madam again and again,:"this is your ID card?"
Lily stood behind and really can't believe her eyes.She watched the lady secretly several times.Meeting a elegant madam, Lily as a female sneak a look again and again.Needless to say the male.
In a word female should take good care of ourselves.Don't worry about wasting money. What we should do is only taking good care of ourselves, taking good care of our skin.
Lily has read many books and articles about ceremonial appearance.Lily also knows the importance of appearance ，hair style and dress，which are never stay in her heart deeply.Lily remembers a program in CCTV several years ago, which was about sharp changes of appearance.First the guest should throw away her most favorite old thing.It's just like you can get what you give up.If you want to change, you must throw away the old things.If you always stay in the old mind, you will never got a change.The first thing of someone if you want to change is that you should throw away the old things and old mind.After changing ,not only her appearance but her heart.The real change is her confidence.
If someone show her confidence in every aspect, she will overcome all the obstacles.It's just like the red clothes in the article not only a suit of red clothes,not only a kind of appearance but her confidence.
