基于《懂你英语》：Level 3 Unit 1 Part 1 Dialog 1 - Staying up late
今天的主题是：Comforting Someone in Need 贴心小棉袄养成记
In today's lesson,we are going to talk about two things:
1.how to show your care for other's health.
如何关心他人的健康
2.how to comfort someone who's not feeling well.
如何抚慰情绪低落的他
Part 1：关爱他人健康
What's the matter?
是一种比较含蓄、关心他人的问法，可以用于不确定对方是不是生病的情况。
For example:
What's the matter,Tom?
Do you feel all right?You don't look so good.
你的气色看着不大好啊！
Are you OK?You look pale.
你还好吗？你看起来脸色好苍白。
somebody+look+形容词=某人看起来怎么样
For example:
You look pale.
Tom doesn't feel well.He looks tired.
I don't feel well.I'm tired.
我感觉不太舒服，太累了。
I don't feel quite right.I need some rest.
我觉得不是很舒服，我想休息。
be worn out=exhausted=精疲力尽
For example:
I am worn out.
I am exhausted.
I went to bed later than usual last night.
我昨天比平常睡的晚。
stay up late=睡得晚/熬夜
For example:
What's the matter?You look tired!
I stayed up late last night.
Just don't stay up too late.
别熬夜啦！
我肚子不舒服，有点想吐：
I feel sick to my stomach.
feel like doing sth.=想要做某事
throw up=呕吐
For example:
I feel like throwing up.
nauseous=恶心的，想吐的
I feel nauseous.
vomit / puke=呕吐
For example:
There must be something wrong with the food,I think I'm going to vomit / puke.
这些食物肯定有问题，我感觉我要吐。
感到恶心、想吐：
I feel sick to my stomach.
I feel liking throwing up.
I think I'm going to vomit / puke.
ache=疼痛
身体部位+ache=什么痛
head”头“+ache=headache”头痛“
tooth”牙“+ache=toothache”牙痛“
For example:
My back aches.
I have a backache.
XX is killing me.
表示”不舒服“的句型，但是语气要夸张一些。
For example:
My head's killing me.
头痛死了！
Man,these shose are killing me.
天哪，这双鞋子穿的我疼死了。
exaggerate=夸张夸大
Can I get you a glass of water?
Would you like to lie down?
Should I call a doctor?
Monica: Oh,my foot!!!
Joey: What,what it is?
Monica: Jellyfish sting?It hurts me!
Chandler: We've got to do something.Should we take you back to the house?
We've got to do something!
我们得做点什么！
Should we take you back to the house?
我们要不要送你回去？
后继的关心：
Are you feeling better now?
你现在好点了吗？
Did you take any medication?
你吃药了吗？
Have you seen a docter?
你看过医生了吗？
Part 2：关怀他人的情绪
Tip 1：做一个好点倾听者
Tell me how you're feeling,maybe I can help you.
vent=发泄
I'm all ears=我听着呢
For example:
Do you just need to vent?I'm all ears!
Tip 2：安慰式
Don't worry,everything is going to be ok.
Tip3：注意力转移
Would you like to hear some gossip?
要不来点八卦？
Tip 4：给予实际的关怀
Can I make you a cup of tea?
给你泡杯茶好吗？
I'm bringing dinner Thursday.Do you want lasagna or chicken?
我周四带饭啊，你要吃千层面还是鸡肉？
Tip 5：直接表达关心
I care about you.You're not alone.
我很关心你，你不是一个人。
错误：
There's always someone worse of than you are. 你这还不是最糟糕的情况。
Stop feeling sorry for yourself. 不要再难过啦！
正确：
You're not alone. 你不是孤独的。
I'll always be there for you. 别怕，有我在。
错误：
No one ever said that life was fair. 生活本来就是不公平的。
正确：
You're going to make it though. 你会好起来的。
错误：
It's your fault. 这是你自己的错。
正确：
Everyone makes mistakes.What we can do is learn from our mistakes. 人非圣贤孰能无过，我们要学会在错误中成长。
