一、抱怨是一种毒药。它摧毁你的意志，降低你的身价，摧残你的身心，削减你的热情。抱怨命运不如改变命运，抱怨生活不如改善生活，毕竟抱怨不能解决问题。爱过知情重，醉过知酒能。我还是我，你还是你吗？
Complaint is a poison. It destroys your will, lowers your status, destroys your body and mind, and reduces your enthusiasm. Complaining about fate is better than changing it. Complaining about life is better than improving it. After all, complaining can not solve the problem. Love knows better than drink. I am still me. Are you still you?
二、原来分手就是这个人跟你再也没有关系，千秋万代，四海八荒，都只有你我，再无我们。永远不要对任何事感到后悔，因为它曾经一度就是你想要的。后悔也没用，要么忘记，要么努力。
The original breakup is this person and you have nothing to do with, for thousands of generations, all over the world, only you and me, no longer us. Never regret anything, because it used to be what you wanted. It's no use regretting, either forgetting or trying.
三、 人的一生并不是什么事都能由自己去选择，痛苦和不幸谁都不想要，但有时往往却接踵而至，祸不单行的日子，你只有用好的心态去处理它，而不应该计较它、在乎它。不管在任何环境之下，都不要忘记你最原来的样子，要学会忍耐，学会收敛。
Everything in a person's life can't be chosen by himself. No one wants pain or misfortune, but sometimes it comes one after another. It's not a single disaster. You only have a good attitude to deal with it, but you shouldn't care about it and care about it. No matter in any environment, don't forget your original appearance, learn to be patient, learn to converge.
四、谎言容易越说越爽，因为谎言比现实要美好，但是谎言像多米诺骨牌一样，说一个慌要十个谎来圆，最后难以自拔。当你站在最高的顶端时，你不仅会被万人追仰向往膜拜，更重要的是，你能得到物质与精神上的极致快乐。
It's easier to tell lies, because they are better than reality. But like dominoes, a lie can't extricate itself from ten lies if it tells a panic. When you stand at the top, you will not only be admired and worshipped by millions of people, but more importantly, you will get the ultimate happiness of material and spiritual.
五、结婚和恋爱毫无关系，人们老以为恋爱成熟后便自然而然的结婚，却不知结婚只是一种生活方式，人人可以结婚，简单得很。而爱情完全是另外一回事。
Marriage has nothing to do with love. People always think that when love matures, it will naturally get married, but they don't know that marriage is only a way of life. Everyone can get married. It's very simple. And love is quite another matter.
六、不要等到了你的人生垂暮，才是想起俯拾朝花，且行且珍惜。向日葵经历了风雨，站在阳光下更显灿烂；人生尝尽了百味方觉甜美。偶尔隐匿的阳光，再来时更温暖；扑朔迷离的希望，出现时才令人惊喜。保持乐观的心态，走着走着天就亮了，幸福也就来了。人生一场，不过活一回心境。
Don't wait till the end of your life to remember and cherish the morning flowers. Sunflower experienced wind and rain, standing in the sunshine more brilliant; life tasted a hundred flavors, taste sweet. Occasionally the hidden sunshine is warmer when it comes back, and the confusing hope is surprising when it appears. Keep an optimistic attitude, walk along the day will be bright, happiness will come. One life, but one mood.
七、人活着，没必要凡事都争个明白。水至清则无鱼，人至清察则无友。跟家人争，争赢了，亲情没了；跟爱人争，争赢了，感情淡了; 跟朋友争，争赢了，情义没了。争的是理，输的是情，伤的是自己。
People live, there is no need to understand everything. When water is clean, there is no fish, but when people are clear, there is no friend. Struggle with family, win, family is gone; Struggle with lover, win, feeling is weak; Struggle with friends, win, feeling is gone. Reason for argument, love for defeat, and self for injury.
八、不要轻易去依赖一个人，它会成为你的习惯，当分别来临，你失去的不是某个人，而是你精神的支柱。无论何时何地，都要学会独立行走，它会让你走得更坦然些。
Don't depend on one person easily. It will become your habit. When parting comes, you will lose not one person, but the pillar of your spirit. Whenever and wherever you go, learn to walk independently. It will make you walk more calmly.
九、谁的生活都不可能是一帆风顺的，人生路总会遇到荆棘的，总有很多艰难的旅程要你一个人面对，你总要经历过苦难才会成长，那些所有打不死你的都会让你更加坚强，努力吧，你可以的！
No one's life can be smooth sailing, life will always encounter thorns, there are always many difficult journeys to face you alone, you will always experience hardship before you grow up, those who can not kill you will make you stronger, hard, you can!
十、 人生要养成四个好习惯：准时、正确、恒心、迅速。缺了准时，光阴就被浪费；没了正确，会错误百出；少了恒心，无法获得成功；没有迅速，往往错失良机。
There are four good habits in life: punctuality, correctness, perseverance and speed. Without punctuality, time will be wasted; without correctness, mistakes will be made; without perseverance, success will not be achieved; without speed, opportunities will often be missed.
十一、而眼前的那个人，就是与自己各方面都很投机的人，在喜欢的事物上，在思想的观念上以及为人处世的方式。要不是因为我爱你，你哪有机会感受得到我的幼稚。
And the person in front of you is the person who is very speculative with himself in all aspects, in the things you like, in the ideas and the way you live in the world. If it hadn't been for my love for you, you would never have felt my childishness.
十二、有心在一起的人，再大的吵闹也会各自找台阶，速度重归于好；离心的人，再小的一次别扭，也会乘机找借口溜掉。不能一直踮着脚尖爱一个人，重心会不稳，撑不了多久。
Those who are intent on being together will find their own steps and speed up again, and those who are centrifugal will take the opportunity to find an excuse to slip away. Can not always stand on tiptoe to love a person, the center of gravity will be unstable, can not last long.
