Maybe sometimes we hide ourselves to face the complex world, maybe we want to become someone we want to be, maybe we just become people's like people, maybe we just want to hide ourselves, maybe had cause, maybe hadn't cause, just not true.
Disguise yourself, maybe just a skill for life, but the different circumstances need you to have the difference. When you want to do something sometimes, but you always disguise yourself, you feel painful and narrow and sad. If you always consider other people's feelings, you will fall into the cliff bottom, and become anxious and melancholy. Because you spend more time thinking about how other people think. If you do that, or say something, you are not true yourself.
Be true, it's not just advice for you or others, but for myself too, because, I feel painfully, because I always consider the other how to think, because when I was young, my mother told me, how to do, be a good baby in other eyes, I don't know what a good boy, but I found just not speaking anything in the crowd, be quiet. But when I was an adult, I found that's wrong. When I was young, I really wanted to speak, but now it's a lot of time I am in a quiet style.
When I found the secret, I was thirty years old. You know, it's really difficult to change myself now, but I know I must change myself. It's not true to myself, I'll do myself, no matter what others deem, I don't care, but I'll do true myself. In essence, you are quiet, persist and be quiet. In essence, you love to talk, persist in talking.
Yes, who you are, you should show who you are, maybe someone will give you some tag, but how about? You just you, just do yourself, don't care about the other how to think, you can not control other speaking, so you don't care, don't care.
Do yourself and control your emotions, that's a leader. Face the criticism, and don't try to reduce the criticism, because you can never make everybody satisfied, just do what you should do, and other stay for the time.
Ask you some questions, and find yourself, and try to change yourself. If you have lost yourself for a long time, you should find a long time. And begin to use the true manner and attitude.
What I speak is what I create.
