it used to be in order to be polite we just follow the advice of Henry Higgen's "my fair lady" stick to weather and my health
but it's not a good topic now
don't multitask.be present/in that moment. don't be half in it and half out of it
don't pontificate好为人师
true listening requires a setting aside of oneself
use open-ended questions. let them describe it
go with the flow顺其自然
if u don't know,say that u don't know.err on the side of caution
don't equate your experiences with theors
try not to repeat yourself
stay out of weeds别说废话
listen. if your month is open，you are not learning.
we don't listen with the intent to understand,we listen with the intent to reply
