People say that marriage is a "fortress". The people who are already committed wants to get out from the relationship and people who aren't committed wants to do the opposite. Some married people say that they don't have time for themselves and can't even have a little break because of their career and some even complains because of simple things like washing the dishes because they're too exhausted to do chores at home.
For example, if couples are both working and when they return home usually the woman will do the chores even if she's exhausted because of working the whole day and likewise with the man. And not just that, they also have to take care of their kids and prepare their meals. Nobody knows how hard it is. People always think that doing household chores aren't tiring. Married people have to put their family first, and yet they are still taken for granted by each other. Why does it have to be this way? And when they’re fed up, they will just walk out of the house, leaving all the chores to their husbands or wives. It seems that they no longer want to keep their family.
Marriage is not just between two people but it's among the families. So before getting married, you should ask yourself if you are confident enough to deal with that. Maybe when you consider this fact then a lot of young people would not get married. On the other hand, marriage doesn’t only consist of problems but it also has good things. As the saying goes, “Every coin has two sides”. So it just depends on how you take it. You have the choice to work it out or to just throw all those good memories and go separate ways.
