If you hold tight on your fist and never open minds to others, how can you embrace the whole world? How can you interact with others and chase your own dream? Every time I go to your side and greet you with my truest heart and belief, you just go away and don’t even directly look into my eyes. Instead your focuses are always fixed down on the ground and it seems you have a lot buried deep inside your heart. I want to inquiry about that in a relatively obscure way but I am afraid you will never get my true feelings for you at the same time. So the only thing I can do is to wait aside and help to my greatest power.
I can still remember all two decades we have spent together, all the way through our education and burning youth. Along the entire process, I changed a lot and so you did. I tried, exercised, learned and communicated a lot with my friends and strangers from different countries and backgrounds, and I have never dropped the connections with my surrounding people and the outside world. People are social animals and we need the interaction with individuals with different thoughts and beliefs. And thus we could gradually know ourselves better and live an unregretful life. Our parents and textbooks have always taught us to be independent and struggle on our own and try not to ask for help from others as much as we can. This so called “truth” may mean a lot to some of us, but unfortunately, I am not buying it. If we have trouble in getting something done, why would it be an utterly awful choice and even a shame to seek for assistance from the outside? We should always bear in mind that it is not just a simple request for those who are far more skilled in some tasks than us, it’s a way not only to keep our bonds tight and get us closer to each other, it’s more a step for us to evolve from an individual being into a social being and finally an fully-integrated part of the reality.
So I wish you could abandon all the traditions that we should always get to the top whatever group we are in and we should fight on our own whatever situations we are faced with ( Even though sometimes we need to fight on our own, apparently it is not my focus here… ). The reason I told people who care a lot about you your predicament is, maybe, you already figured out, I want you to connect and interact with them and no more striving on your own. Let others help you, please even though I know long before you are strong, smart and tough. I can’t and never keep paces with you for the whole life,and you as well have your own social hub and friends and they can be so cool that you feel stickily attached with them. So rely on them and live comfortable with it.
Except for the above dependence and connections wishes, I expect you to pursue your dream freely and unconstrainedly and I am full ready to act as your back support. Hope you and I can achieve something more meaningful in life, and so for all of you who have access to my first open article in English…
