没经历过苦难的情感婚姻家庭，一遇到事就散

<h1 data-pm-slice="0 0 []" data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; font-weight: 400; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid solid none; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235) rgb(229, 231, 235) rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">为什么越共患难的感情，越牢固？因为苦难是检验真心的唯一标准</span></h1><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;"></span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">做了10年情感咨询，我见过太多看起来很甜蜜，但一遇到事就散的情侣。也见过很多经历了生死、贫穷、疾病的夫妻，反而越来越恩爱。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">我突然明白一个道理：没经历过苦难的感情，就像温室里的花，经不起风雨。</span></p><h3 data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; font-weight: 400; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">我是可以陪你成长的财情双生咨询师</span></h3><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">陪伴过500多个企业中高管家庭后，我发现一个扎心的真相：那些一帆风顺的婚姻，往往最容易出问题；那些经历过患难的婚姻，反而最稳固。</span></p><p>
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</p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;"></span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); visibility: visible;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">第一，顺境中的感情，看不出真心。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">我见过一对情侣，男生是富二代，女生是校花。两个人谈恋爱的时候，天天吃大餐、住五星酒店、开豪车兜风。朋友们都羡慕他们，说这是神仙眷侣。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">结果男生家里生意失败，一夜之间从富二代变成负二代。女生立马提出分手，头也不回地走了。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">男生跟我说："我以为她爱我，原来她只是爱我的钱。"</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; visibility: visible; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">这就是顺境的问题：你永远不知道，对方爱的是你，还是你的条件。只有在逆境中，才能看出谁是真心，谁是假意。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235);"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第二，没经历过考验的婚姻，经不起风浪。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我见过一对夫妻，结婚5年，一直很恩爱。老公事业顺利，老婆全职在家，日子过得很舒服。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">但去年老公被裁员了，家里突然没了收入。两个人开始吵架，老婆嫌老公没用，老公嫌老婆不理解。吵了半年，最后离婚了。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">其实他们的问题不是没钱，而是没经历过考验。平时看起来很恩爱，但一遇到困难，就暴露出关系的脆弱。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">真正牢固的婚姻，不是没有困难，而是一起经历过困难，还能手牵手走下去。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235);"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第三，共患难的经历，会让感情升华。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">它会让你看清谁是真心对你好，也会让你们的感情变得更深、更牢固。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如果你也想知道你的感情能不能经得起考验，想提前做好准备，想让你的婚姻更牢固，评论区回复"免费测评"，我来帮你评估你的感情安全度。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><h2 data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; font-weight: 400; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid solid none; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235) rgb(229, 231, 235) rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我发现，那些经不起患难的感情，都有三个特点</span></h2><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235);"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第一个特点：只享受甜蜜，不愿意承担责任。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多人谈恋爱的时候，只想要浪漫、甜蜜、快乐，不愿意面对现实、承担责任、解决问题。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我见过一个女生，跟男朋友谈了3年，天天腻歪在一起。但一提到结婚，她就说："我还没玩够，不想那么早结婚。"</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">后来男生家里出了事，需要钱。女生立马变脸："你家的事跟我有什么关系？我又不是你老婆。"</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">男生伤心透了，跟她分手了。他说："我以为她爱我，原来她只是想玩玩而已。"</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">真正的感情，不只是享受甜蜜，还要愿意承担责任。如果只想要甜蜜，不愿意承担责任，这种感情是走不长远的。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235);"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第二个特点：只看表面条件，不看内在品质。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多人选伴侣的时候，只看对方有没有钱、有没有房、长得帅不帅、漂不漂亮，不看对方的人品、责任心、价值观。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我见过一个男生，追女生的时候，各种豪车、名牌、大餐。女生被他的条件迷住了，很快就答应了。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">结婚后，男生生意失败，破产了。女生立马翻脸："你现在什么都没有了，我为什么还要跟你？"</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">男生很崩溃，他说："我以为她爱我，原来她只是爱我的钱。"</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">真正重要的不是表面条件，而是内在品质。有钱可以没有，但人品不能没有；房子可以没有，但责任心不能没有。只有内在品质好的人，才能在患难中不离不弃。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235);"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第三个特点：缺乏共同经历，关系很浅薄。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多情侣在一起很久，但关系很浅薄。他们没有共同的回忆、没有共同的经历、没有真正深入地了解对方。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我见过一对夫妻，结婚10年，但感情很淡。我问他们："你们有什么共同的回忆吗？"他们想了半天，说："好像没有。"</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这就是问题所在。没有共同经历的感情，就像两条平行线，看起来在一起，其实离得很远。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">真正牢固的感情，是有共同经历的。你们一起笑过、哭过、吵过、和好过，这些经历会让你们的关系越来越深。</span></p><h2 data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; font-weight: 400; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid solid none; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235) rgb(229, 231, 235) rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">其实，患难是感情最好的试金石</span></h2><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多人怕患难，觉得患难会毁掉感情。但我想说，真正牢固的感情，不怕患难，反而需要患难。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235);"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">因为患难能检验真心。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">顺境中，每个人都可以对你好。但逆境中，只有真心爱你的人，才会留在你身边。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我见过一个女生，得了重病，花光了所有积蓄。她的闺蜜、朋友、同事，一个个都消失了。只有她的男朋友，一直陪在她身边，借钱给她治病，辞职照顾她。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">她康复后，立马嫁给了他。她说："患难让我看清了谁是真心对我好。"</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这就是患难的力量。它会帮你筛掉那些假朋友、假感情，留下真正爱你的人。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235);"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">因为患难能让你成长。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">患难不只是考验，还是成长的机会。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">经历过患难的人，会变得更成熟、更坚强、更有智慧。他们知道什么是真正重要的，知道怎么面对困难，知道怎么经营感情。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我见过一个男生，年轻的时候很幼稚，遇到事就逃避。后来他父亲去世，他不得不扛起家庭的重担。短短1年，他就成长了很多。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他说："如果没有这次患难，我可能一辈子都长不大。"</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这就是患难的力量。它会逼着你成长，让你变成更好的自己。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><h3 data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; font-weight: 400; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span textstyle="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-weight: bold;">如何让你的感情经得起患难？</span></span></h3><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235);"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第一步：提前做好心理准备。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多人以为感情应该一帆风顺，一遇到困难就崩溃。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">其实感情就像人生，不可能一直顺利。你要提前做好心理准备：我们会遇到困难，但我们会一起面对。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有了这个心理准备，遇到困难的时候，你就不会慌张，而是会冷静地想办法解决。</span></p><p>
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margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第二步：平时多沟通、多了解。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多情侣平时不沟通，遇到事了才发现彼此想法不一样。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">从现在开始，多跟对方沟通。聊聊你的想法、你的担心、你的期待。多了解对方的价值观、底线、处理问题的方式。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这样，遇到困难的时候，你们就能更好地配合，而不是互相指责。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235);"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第三步：遇到小困难，一起解决。</span></strong><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不要等到大困难来了才考验感情，平时遇到小困难，就要一起解决。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">比如家里水管坏了，一起修；比如工作遇到问题，一起想办法；比如跟父母有矛盾，一起沟通。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这些小困难，会帮你们练习配合、练习信任、练习共患难。等到真正的大困难来了，你们就有经验了。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><h2 data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; font-weight: 400; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid solid none; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235) rgb(229, 231, 235) rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">下期预告</span></h2><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">下次我会跟你聊：为什么有些夫妻经历了患难，反而离婚了？患难中，哪些做法会毁掉感情？</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">你经历过患难吗？患难让你的感情变好了还是变坏了？评论区告诉我，咱们一起探讨。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 24px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-wrap-mode: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 231, 235); line-height: 2em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span leaf="" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">记住，患难见真情。没经历过苦难的感情，是脆弱的。越共患难，越安全。别怕患难，它是感情最好的试金石。</span></p><p data-doubao-translate-traverse-mark="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; 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