为什么鼓励你考一所好的大学

高考到底考的是什么?有人说,高考分数高一点又怎么样?我严肃地告诉你,就是这一个高考分数,他就能够证明一个学生十二年以来知识的积累和吃苦、自律、专心致志,你在打游戏他却能抵得住诱惑的能力,而这种超强的意志品质和主观能动性不仅对以后的生活和工作有潜移默化的帮助和影响,而且像人的血液一样自然而然地会融入到他的生命里,并很难被别人所效仿和弥补。当你以后自豪的化了一脸浓妆并嘲笑学霸连NIKE和Chanel都不认识的时候,人家可能拿起粉饼三小时就能学会你正在炫耀的技能,但坐在图书管理查文献、耐住寂寞做实验的本事可不是一朝一夕能学会。也有人说,那有什么,我今后努力一些不就可以超越他们。但是,一所好的大学,傻X毕竟是少数,而差的大学,牛逼的人却是微乎其微。就像大二裸考英语四六级,不管啥专业都能几乎全过六级的复旦大学学生永远体会不到很多大学生却连一个四级都过的很吃力。

所以这就是各大公司在招聘的时候宁可招一个985、211的学渣,也不愿意要一个三本的学霸的理由。一个人的简历可以瞎写,言谈举止可以伪装,而一个学生的内在素质、学习能力、执行能力、自我约束力却怎么也模仿不了,而你在学校里的名次就是强有力的证明。没有一个单位不想要一个具备学习能力、勤奋又踏实并且素质高的员工,所以大学生就业难,受影响的永远是排在后面的人。985的学生面临的只是选择和发展,而你很有可能面对的是被挑选和生存。而且特别奇怪的是,越是名牌大学,家庭背景好、条件优越的学生反而比普通大学多得多,你会经常在学校里见到很多比你有钱、比你有背景的同学,还是在拼尽全力地奋斗着属于他们自己的人生,他们很多人的身上真的闪烁着与他气质相匹配的光芒,进而会让你指导,我不得不继续踏实努力地深造。所以清华出来的学生很多人想的是“我如何为我的国家效力”,而很多人的理想却是有一份2000元的稳定工作就很满足了。

环境塑造的不仅是人的肉体,更直观的却是一个人的三观、意识和思维,就导致学校越差、学生越没有见识,越会沾沾自喜,进而连一个展示自我机会的平台都没有,大学毕业后只能变成了一只井底之蛙。

而当你从一所名牌大学走出来之后,你很有可能会有广阔的人脉和超强的思辨性,进而会带着无数种发光发热的可能性,让你见识到更广阔的世界,若干年以后,他可能已经是社会的中产阶级或者中流砥柱,而你对社会精英、财务自由的理解,很可能只能从电视剧上看到了。那么以上的社会地位、物质待遇的差距追根溯源,就是从高考后一点一点慢慢拉开的。所以你现在偷得懒,一定会是以后打脸的巴掌。不要把自己的命运寄托在那个概率小的不能再小的逆袭上,更不要让自己变得侥幸,大多数人只能是大多数人,考680分的绝大多数的人一定比考200分的人过得好的多,考985、211的绝大多数人也一定会比普通大学的人过的好的多。书从来没有白读,分数更没有白考、罪更没有白受的,所以你不要抱怨高考有多残酷多累,他们只是按照社会需要,很公平地把人划分出来。这就是为什么有人会从事纷繁复杂的脑力劳动,而有的人却只能从事简单的体力劳动。高考真的是你人生中最公平的一次考试,也确确实实是一次不看脸不看身材只靠刻苦努力就可以改变命运的一次考试了,只是他赐予考出不同分数学生的权力却是完全不一样的,他绝对能改变一个人的命运,时间能够证明一切。

所以我越来越明白,为什么父母总是说学习时给自己学的,因为学风更好的学习环境,更宽广的视野,更优秀的同伴、教授的机会,更有人文关怀的地方,是你自己努力后社会给于你最好的馈赠。你不努力,你永远不知道上层人的生活,你顶多只能仰望。虽然你的起点决定不了终点,但是往往很多人死在了起点,根本就没有机会看到终点。尽量让自己的起点高一点吧,到了大学你就会明白,高中真的很简单,他可能是你一生中目标最明确的三年,因为所有人的目标只有一个,那就是考上一所理想的大学。就像1977年北京高考文科状元刘学红说的,如果没有高考,我应该也会和那些留城的同学一样,做一个销售员,或者顶替父母做一些普通的工作,和现在的视野不一样,关心的东西也不一样。

但是,即使你在高中没能如愿以偿,也不代表止步当下,从此蝇苟一生。我不赞成对逆袭心怀侥幸,因为一切结果皆有迹可循,我们日后如何取决于过往一切给予我们的素质和经验,那些可喜的、乏善可陈的道路或结局,或许就是你备考过程中沉淀下来的学习能力、意志品质、思维方式的集中体现,而这些往往比一张大学入场券更有意义。

最后我想说,珍惜高中生活最后的时光吧。毕业时,请对你的老师说一句谢谢,给你的同学一个大大的拥抱,因为从高考结束的那天起,可能你的同班同学就再也聚不齐了,很多人这辈子也就再也见不到了。过不了多久你就会想起紧张的上课铃声,角落里的班主任和熟悉的大食堂。生活真的和自己想象的不一样,一开始大家在各自不同的城市读着自己的书,后来到了世界各地奋斗打拼,再后来娶妻生子,安家落户,再次联系可能不是结婚就是借钱了。

人生就是这样,过来人的话在当事人的耳中依旧是听不进去的。有经历才会真正懂得,没有经历绝对不会明白。所以,不要让自己后悔,遗憾真的就是遗憾。有的事情你可以犯错,可以后悔,但是有些事情的错误你犯不起。不要把自己活成高考之后你的人生就只剩下游戏的样子,做当下最好的选择,走当下最难走的路。

各位高三的同学们,高考加油吧!

Why encourage you to take a good college

What is the examination of the college entrance examination? Some people say, college entrance examination scores a little higher so what? I am serious to tell you that it is this score in the college entrance examination that can prove a student's ability to accumulate knowledge and endure hardship, self-discipline, and concentration over the past 12 years, but he can resist temptation when you play games. This super will character and subjective initiative not only help and influence the future life and work, but also melt into the person's life naturally, and it is difficult for others to emulate and make up for it. When you proudly put on a face of makeup and laugh at high achiever and even NIKE and Chanel You may learn the skills you're showing off in three hours when you don't know them, but sitting in a book management literature and experimenting with loneliness can't be learned overnight. Others say that there is something I can do to surpass them in the future. However, a good university, silly X is the minority, and the poor college, the strong is very little. Just like a sophomore taking CET-4 and CET-6, Fudan University students, regardless of their major, can pass CET-6 almost entirely. Fudan University students will never realize that many college students have even had a CET-4 experience.

So that's why companies would rather hire a 985、211 low achiever than a three-copy high achiever. A person's resume can be written indiscriminately, words and manners can be disguised, and a student's inner quality, learning ability, executive ability, self-binding ability can never be imitated, and your place in school is a strong proof. No unit does not want an employee with learning ability, hard work and high quality, so it is difficult for college students to find a job, which will always affect the students who are at the bottom of the list. 985 students are faced with only choice and development, and you are likely to face it. Is chosen and survives. And what's particularly strange is that the more famous universities, the better the family background, the more superior the students will be. You will often meet many more students in the school who have more money than you, who have more background than you. Or in the struggle of their own life, many of them really flicker with his temperament of the light, which will let you guide, I have to continue to work hard to further education. So many of the students out of Tsinghua are thinking, "how can I serve my country?" and many people's ideal is to have a stable job of 2000 yuan.

The environment not only shapes the human body, but what is more intuitive is a person's three views, consciousness and thinking. The worse the school, the less informed the students will be, and the more complacent they will be, the more they will not even have a platform for showing their own opportunities. After graduating from college, it can only become a frog in a well.

And when you walk out of a prestigious university, you're likely to have a broad network, a strong intellectual, and a myriad of possibilities that will give you a wider world, a few years from now. He may already be the middle class or mainstay of society, and your understanding of the social elite, financial freedom, is likely to be seen only in TV dramas. So the above social status, the material treatment of the gap traced back to the source, is slowly opened from the point after the college entrance examination. So now you steal lazy, must be the face of the slap. Don't put your destiny on that little chance you can't On the small counterattack, do not let yourself become lucky, most people can only be the majority of people, the vast majority of people who take the 680 score must be better off than those who scored 200 in the test. The vast majority of people who take the 985211 exam will certainly have a much better time than the average university. Books are never white, scores are not white tests, sin is not white, so don't complain about how cruel and tired the college entrance examination is, they just divide people out fairly according to the needs of society. That's why some people do complicated mental work, while others do simple physical work. College entrance examination is really the fairest thing in your life. One of his exams was really a test that could change his fate without looking at his face, without looking at his body, only by hard work, but the power he gave to students with different grades was completely different. He can definitely change a person's destiny, time can prove everything.

So I understand more and more why parents always say they learn for themselves when they study, because of a better learning environment, a broader perspective, a better partner, a better chance for a professor, a more humane place to care about. It is the best gift that society gives you after your own efforts. You don't work hard, you never know the life of the upper class, you can only look up. Although your starting point does not determine the end, but many people die at the starting point, there is no chance to see the end. Try to make your starting point a little higher. When you get to college, you will understand that high school is really simple. It may be the most purposeful three years in your life, because Everyone has only one goal, that is, to be admitted to an ideal university. As Liu Xuehong, the top liberal arts student in the Beijing College entrance examination in 1977, said, if there were no college entrance examination, I would have done some ordinary work as a salesman or substitute for my parents, just like my classmates who stayed in the city. The things you care about are different.

But even if you don't get what you want in high school, it doesn't mean stopping the moment. I do not approve of being lucky to fight back, because there is a track record of all the results, how we will depend on the qualities and experiences that have been given to us in the past, the gratifying, unpromising paths or outcomes. It may be the ability to learn, the quality of will, and the way of thinking that you accumulate in the preparation process, which are often more meaningful than a college ticket.

Finally, I want to say, cherish the last time of high school life. When you graduate, please say thank you to your teacher, give your classmates a big hug, because from the end of the day of the college entrance examination, maybe your classmates will never get together again, many people will never see it again. Soon you will think of the nervous bell, the class teacher in the corner and the familiar canteen. Life is really different from what I imagined. At first we read our books in different cities, then we went all over the world to fight, and then we got married and had children, we settled down, and maybe we were either married or borrowed money again.

Life is like this, the words that come to people are still not heard in the ears of the parties. Experience will really understand, no experience will never understand. So, do not let yourself regret, regrets are regrets. Some things you can make mistakes, you can regret, but you can't afford to make mistakes. Don't make yourself high. After the exam, your life is just like the game. It is the best choice to take the most difficult road at present.

High school students, college entrance examination come on!

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