接受、宽容、谅解
剧情诊脉：
1.克莱尔和米奇尔的妈妈/杰的前妻突然来袭，众人十分不安。故事还要追溯到在杰和歌的婚礼上，她大发酒疯，差点毁了那场婚礼。
"My mother wanted to go to the wedding to show everyone how ok sha was with all of it."
MUM:"I would like to make a toast.To the bride and the groom-my ex.Thirty five years we were together and he couldn't wait 10minutes to run off with Charo.Seriously, I knew they were perfect for each other when I saw his wallet anh her boobs"
但 她态度无比真诚，过来给大家道歉，请求见到歌。
MUM:"I need closure.I'm about to embark on a new journey.It's just that when I think of all the awful things that I said to Gloria and Jay and u and Claire, I feel such guilt.
Maybe u can pave the way so that I can apologize. "
2.海莉要和迪兰去看演唱会，会一晚上呆在外面。父母坚决不同意，海莉很抓狂，躲回自己房间7。恰巧NANNA赶来，说道克莱尔小时候也是这样。克莱尔不服气，要迪兰今晚来家里做客，通过考验就同意。海莉无比兴奋。
"invite Dylan over to dinner tonight and if he's as sweet and as kind as you say he is then I have no problem considering letting you go to the concert."
"parenting style."
处理过程：
米奇尔和杰瞒着歌，来到克莱尔和菲尔家里。当她发现时，转身要走，但是Nanna真诚道歉:"I just wanna tell you, how sorry I am for ruining your wedding.I was struggling with being alone.Meanwhile Jay moves on so easily,and not with just anyone-witj a young and smart and beautiful woman.I don't except you to forgive me."
歌大度表示：“I forgive you.”但是突然画风一转，两个女人打起来，众人劝架。迪兰的一番话化解了矛盾。
"You are reaching out to hold on to sth awesome.It's funny -tje first time I saw Haley,I knew I like her.I mean ,she's beautiful and everything.it's not just that.It's that she's got this killer confidence-"the kind of confidence that u get from having a family like this.that's passionate and accepting of hot foreigners and gay dudes and nutty people.A family that actually loves each other.
歌声中，阵阵温馨
反思
一个真正的大家庭，应该是怎样的？
每个人会感受到亲情、交融、矛盾争吵、原谅、宽容......
或许，我们需要学着站在对方的角度去共情。
