你那些所谓的‘缺点’,你身上那些自己都不喜欢的特质,其实是你最宝贵的财富,只不过表达的程度有点过于强烈了。这就好比放音乐,如果音量开得太大,就会让人感觉有些不适应。只要你能把这种特质的‘音量’调回去,你自己———以及你周围的所有人———就会意识到,你的‘缺点’其实正是你的优点。它们可以为你所用,而不是成为你的绊脚石。你唯一需要做的,就是在适当的时候,以适当的方式,把这些特质表现到适当的程度,不要过度。
(译文)
Your so-called 'shortcomings', the traits you don't like, are actually your most valuable wealth, but the degree of expression is too strong. This is like playing music. If the volume is turned too high, people will feel uncomfortable. As long as you can turn back the 'volume' of this trait, you - and everyone around you - will realize that your 'shortcomings' are actually your strengths. They can be used for you, not a stumbling block. The only thing you need to do is to show these characteristics to an appropriate degree at the appropriate time and in the appropriate way, and do not overdo it.