In one people's life, there will be hundreds, and even thousands of chances to change himself or herself. There are many periods in life. We always have one of three chances below in each period. The first is an opportunity we can gain more. The second is the possibilities we can loss more. The third is that we can neither gain nor loss any more by ourselves. What decisions can we make?
人的一生中有成百个甚至上千个机会改变自己。人的一生中有很多个阶段，在每一个阶段都有如下三个选择：选择后得到一个获得更多的机遇；选择后拥有一个失去更多的可能性；选择后什么也不会改变。我们会如何选择呢？
We have two choices, fight or give up. If we choose to give up, it happens nothing to us. Lives look the same as normal. Whether or not we are lucky are all based on the reality that we are in. If we choose to fight, each of the three probabilities above can happen to us. we may get a way to do things easier than the other else.
我们有两个选择：争取或放弃。如果我们选择“放弃”，对于我们来说，什么也没有发生,一切如常，幸运与否完全取决于我们正在其中的现实。如果我们选择“争取”，以上的三种可能性都可能发生。我们或许获得了一个做事相对容易的路径。
When we haven't made any choice, we go toward the future along the original way. We can say it as an old way. When we have already made a choice to fight for it, it may mean a new way. For most people, the new way means win and the old way means fail, the new way means gain and the old way means loss. Really? How should I think obout it?
如果我们没有做任何选择，我们就沿着原有的路径走向未来。我们可以说那是一条老路。如果我们做出了拼一把的决定，那可能是一个新的路径。对绝大多数人来说，新路意味着赢，老路意味着输，新路意味着得，老路意味着失。真的吗？我怎么想？
Making a choice is not an end point, but a new beginning. I can make a little progress everyday on my old way future. I can also make a little progress everyday on my new way future. Whether it is new or old, the most important is that I must have my good feelings on my way.
做出一个选择不是一个终点而是一个新的起点。通向未来，在老路上我可以每天进步一点点，在新路上我也可以每天进步一点点。不管老路还是新路，最重要的是我要一路好心情。
If I look making choices as an ending, I wanna win effortlessly. I will stop improving. If I look making choices as a new beginning, I can keep going toward my future. I can dream my big dreams. I can improve myself everyday. Only because I can never give up.
如果我把选择看作一个终点，我想躺赢，我将停止成长。如果我把选择看作一个新的起点，我会继续前进，我会有远大梦想，我会每天成长。只是因为我从不放弃。
Take good care for your chances. Cherish the chances every times you meet in which you can get much more energy to improve yourself.
好生呵护你的机会，好好珍惜你所遇到的每一次机会，你会获得更多成长进步的动力。
Don't admire those who are the winner. They have already been persuing this achievements too long, but you haven't. Don't envy those who are the winner. Good skills and good lucky are both belong to them, but you lack.
不要羡慕那些赢家，他们已经为此长久积累，而你却积累不够。不要嫉妒那些赢家，他们不仅有实力还有好运傍身，而你却有所缺损。
Don't underestimate those who are failure. They have their confidence and energy to fight once again, but you can't. Don't laugh at those who are failure. Just because they understand the meaning about fail, so they specifically cherish their life. They're the most likely winners at last. They hope to the future with fulling of enthusiasm. Especially, they never mind fail, they always dare to try again, but you don't.
不要小看那些输家，他们有信心也有能量再战，而你却不能。不要嘲笑那些输家，正因为他们懂得“输”的含义，所以他们特别珍爱生活，他们最有可能成为真正的赢家。他们饱含热情向往未来。尤其是，他们从不在意失败，他们总是敢于再来，而你却不敢。
Dear my readers, have you ever met anything you couldn't win? Have you ever experienced the stories you won? If there is something difficult accidently happens to you, how about you? what will you think about it? what decision should you make? Could you fight for it? Couldn't you give it up?
亲爱的读者朋友，你有没有遇到过不能赢的事？你有没有过赢的经历？如果突然遇到什么困难的事，怎么办？怎么想？如何决策？能拼吗？难道会放弃？
Fail in competition of active choice doesn't mean real fail. Can't stand up to fight once again is real fail. Never care about how the other people look at you. Do what you wanna do. Do what you love to do. Try your best to do well. Just do it.
主动选择竞争中的失败不算失败，输了后不能站起来再战才是真正的失败。不要在意其他人怎么看。想做就做，爱干就干，尽力做好。干就好了。
