It happens to every child that parents always compare us with other people's children. When I am young, my mother always compare me with my best friend. She said :“you look her, how obedient, and do chores, you're just mad at me…" But my mother don't know how Iam sad.
Just as a popular saying goes,every coin has two sides. The parents always want us get better, but must have right approach.They think This comparison motivates us without knowing that it demeans us.Because we have different ideas, communication is a bit troublesome, so this is a difficult problem.