A feeling uncontrolled is no indication whatsoever that it is any deeper than a feeling that is disciplined.只有自律的爱才来得最深刻！
Shallow brooks are noisy. Still waters run deep!
浅水喧闹，静水流深！大爱无声！
While one should not be a slave to one's feelings, self-discipline does not mean the squashing of one's feeling into nonexistence.
感情是生活激情的源泉，但我们不应该做感情的奴隶，更不能奴役感情。要通过自律来约束感情，这样的感情才稳妥长久！
Genuine love is precious, and those who are capable of genuine love know that their loving must be focused as productively as possible through self-discipline.
弱水三千，只取一瓢饮。人生何其短暂，我们要学会把有限的爱投放给值得的人，如若不幸遭遇给我们内耗的人，要果断撤离，避免更大的伤害！
The first obligation of a genuinely loving person will always be to his or her marital and parental relationships.
家人首要的义务，就是对爱人和孩子负责，忠贞永远不过时！
Free love is an ideal. Unfortunately, it is an ideal of which very few of us are capable.
外面彩旗飘飘，家里红旗不倒，这也许是有些人的终极梦想（男女通用！）。这是对家及爱人和孩子极大的不尊重，既然选择了对方，就要坚守承诺。
Genuine love, with all the discipline that it requires, is the only path in this life to substantial joy.
自律的爱方能善终！
