作为一名资深90后，我其实从来不追剧的你们知道吗？我最近在家里呆了一段时间，等我看完了电视剧《都挺好》，我感觉每个家庭中都是有苏大强的影子吧？！
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As a senior post-90s generation, I don't actually follow plays, do you know? I have been at home for some time recently. when I finish watching TV series "everything is fine", I feel that there is a shadow of su daqiang in every family, right? !
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我现在已经感觉到90后95后的无形压力了。最近我没办法跟我爸去沟通了。他一张嘴永远都是埋怨家里没有儿子，还说一些养闺女就是没有用的话。甚至还要去担心他的子孙后代问题。还会问我无厘头的问题，问我以后如果结婚了有了孩子了该怎么办。还担心像我的生活方式怎么教育出来优秀的子孙。我真的是从来都没有想过去让孩子成为自己精神绑架的理由。我现在才开始很理解为什么90后大部分结婚早都是因为婚前他们有了孩子。我不想结婚，我更不想要孩子。即使以后结婚了，在家庭里，只有我才是宝宝。
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I have now felt the invisible pressure of post-90s post-95s generation. Recently, I have been unable to communicate with my father. When he opens his mouth, he always complains that there is no son in the family and also says that it is useless to raise a daughter. Even to worry about his children and grandchildren. He would also ask me silly questions and what I would do if I got married and had children. I am also worried about how my lifestyle can educate outstanding children and grandchildren. I really have never thought of letting children become the reason for my spiritual kidnapping in the past. I am now beginning to understand why most marriages after the 90s are early because they have children before marriage. I don't want to get married, and I don't want children. Even after getting married, I am the only baby in the family inside.
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我的粉丝之前就跟我说过，我爸是个黑粉。我这几天感触太深了。我感觉父母老了。他们以前不是这个样子的啊！我又想了一下，可能是因为我在外面十年，平时只是每个月回家一次的原因，所以之前没有感觉到父母的三观。这次回来我在家里住的时间有点长，我直视了他们的三观。尤其是我爸。他简直是苏大强的双倍，真的是double甚至更多。他一辈子都想要儿子。好像养个儿子就光荣耀祖了。听说闺女谈了外籍男朋友就认为是给家族丢脸了。还总是埋怨我，说如果我是男生就给家族带光环了。我求我妈赶快给我生个弟弟好吗？
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My fans have told me before that my father is a black powder. I have been feeling too deeply these days. I feel that my parents are getting old. They were not like this before! I thought about it again, maybe it is because I have been out for ten years and usually only come home once a month, so I didn't feel my parents' views before. This time I stayed at home for a long time. I looked straight at them. Especially my dad. He is almost double that of Su Daqiang. He is really double or more. He wants a son all his life. It seems that raising a son will only glorify our ancestors. I heard that the girl talked about her foreign boyfriend and thought it was a disgrace to the family. Also always blame me, said If I Were a Boy will give the family a halo. Can I ask my mother to give me a younger brother as soon as possible?
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知道吗？身体里面的小秘密，任何一个婚姻家庭中的任何角色，三观不合的后果不仅仅只是吵架。昨天我刚看到某心理医生的一段视频，她用她的亲身经历告诉大家，她和她的前夫就因为三观不合每天吵架，后来她身体里长了肿瘤，但是后来她结束了她那段不幸的婚姻，离开了一段时间后，她身体里的肿瘤消失了。
其实确实就是这样的，我感觉90后不想结婚，无非就是因为没有遇到一个跟自己志同道合的三观一致的伴侣吧。
希望你们都能找一个能够跟自己玩的好的，并且能一起赚钱的人结婚。
永远要记住，无论男生还是女生。
从来都没有应该结婚的年纪。
知道吗？罐头是在1810年发明出来的。
可是开罐器却在1858年才被发明出来。
重要的东西有时也会迟来一步。
无论爱情还是生活
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You know what? The small secret inside the body, any role in any marriage and family, and the consequences of three-dimensional disagreement are not just quarrels. Yesterday, I just saw a video from a psychologist. She told everyone through her own experience that she and her ex-husband quarreled every day because of their three-dimensional differences. Later, her body inside developed a tumor, but later she ended her unfortunate marriage and after leaving for a period of time, her body inside tumor disappeared.
In fact, this is indeed the case. I feel that they don't want to get married after 90s, simply because they haven't met a partner who is in line with my own interests.
I hope you can all find someone who can play well with yourself and make money together.
Always remember, boys and girls alike.
There is never an age when one should get married.
You know what? Canned food was invented in 1810.
But the can opener was invented in 1858.
Important things sometimes come too late.
No matter love or life
