今天意识到评价别人,多给积极建议的重要性。
“focus not only negative part, but also the positive part. Pay attention to the way of delivering evaluation.
Seek first to understand, then to be understood. 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. Words do have power.
We have a responsibility to stay positive when giving feedback to others, because that may affect their exploration of their potential.”
今天真的有被打击到了,感觉自己被评价到一无是处了,感觉自己一直在瞎忙,什么都做不好。还好后来在小伙伴Iris和安娜的帮助下,慢慢自己调整过来了。
今天真让我怀疑自己是不是真的不仅学得慢,还真无可救药地蠢了,开始质疑自己职业选择:莫非我真不适合做老师?Iris说,你把熟练度练练吧,咱们以这个取胜,而且这个能解决大部分的问题。
今天的这份失落感,让我真正体会到了积极评价的价值,我之前在俱乐部点评的时候,总把重点放在别人要提高的点上了,基本上忽略这方面的价值了。