1.时间:2021.10.7
2.听的题目是:毅力(Angela Lee Duckworth)
3.深刻理解到的内容是
(1)学生成绩好坏的区别并不仅仅由IQ决定,从动机和心理层面看会更全面;
(2)Who is successful here and why?
在不同的环境和各行各业中能脱颖而出的人具有的一个显著的共同特质,不是社交才能,不是好看的外表,不是强壮的体魄,也不是高IQ,而是毅力(grit:courage and determination despite difficulty)。
(3)Grit(毅力)
Grit is passion and perseverance for very long-term goals. Grit is having stamina. Grit is sticking with your future,day in,day out,not just for the week,not just for the month,but for years,and working really hard to make that future a reality(毅力是对于长期目标的热情和坚持;毅力是有耐力;毅力是紧跟未来,日复一日,年复一年,用汗水把未来变为现实)
(4)Building grit(培养毅力)
Growth mindset(成长思维):The ability to learn is not fixed,it can change with your effort.(能力并非固定,而是随着你的努力而改变)
4.我对这个ted的点评
(1)大道相通。在《大创业家》中,Ray在创业的道路中,经受了一次又一次的拒绝和打击后,激励他不断前行的,正是“坚持不懈”。落寞的他在旅馆中,听着那段让他继续前行的话:Persistence. Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence. Talent won't, nothing is more common than unsuccessful men in talent. Genius won't, unrewarded genius is practically a cliche. Education won't, the world is full of educated fools. Persistence and determination alone are all powerful show that you don't have to be defeated by anything,that you can have peace of mind, improved health and a never-ceasing flow of energy. If you attempt each and every day to achieve thesethings, the results will themselves obvious to you. While it may sound like amagical notion, it is in you to create your own future. The greatest discoveryof my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering theirattitude of mind.Ralph Waldo Emerson declared "A man is what hethinks about all day long"
坚持不懈!世上没有任何东西可以取代“坚持不懈”。天赋不能,天赋异禀却不能成事的人到处都是。天才不能,无法实现抱负的天才早已不再新鲜。教育不能,这个世上充斥着高学历的傻瓜。但坚持不懈和信念坚定是如此的强大,它们不会让你被任何东西打倒,你会拥有平静的内心,健康的身体和用不完的能量。如果你每天都尝试实现这些事情,最终的结果对你来说是显而易见的。虽然这听起来很神奇,但未来由你自己创造。我们这一代最伟大的发现是:改变心态能够改变生活。就像艾默生说过的,“人终究会成为他每天都想要成为的那个人”。
(2)演讲诚挚,充满激情、能量,富有感染力。
5.金句
(1)Grit is living life like it’s a marathon,not a sprint.(毅力在生活中是一场马拉松,而不是一次短跑)
(2)We have to be willing to fail,to be wrong,to start over again with lessons learned.(我们要愿意去失败,去犯错误,然后从中汲取经验重新开始)
(3)We need to be gritty about getting our kids grittier(我们要有毅力,才能让我们的孩子更有毅力)